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Thanks Ariel – and Hywel.
What a shot. This is something new i this world. There is a lot of ways to tie/chain/punish/humiliate and so on a girl. And a lot of people has made a lot of garbage and a litlle fraction of good stuff (the percentage of that is high here!)
But this – a long video – Ariel shows what comes across as her real feelings and emotions of being in a collar in public. And some great scenes too – loves the scene where she talks in the car at the end.
I couldent care less about shoes/no shoes or panties/no panties but seeing that collar worn in public was great.Anyway – it must have taken the edge of humiliation to have Hywel run around whith a video camera – then you looked a little like on job and not being a “real” slavegirl. But of cause – at times you were on some distance..
You said people talked about the collar – what did they say?? How many do you think noticed it??Well – you made my day – and did a lot to this members loyality also in hard times of cheap restraints and cloth gags 🙂
Ariel,did i mention you look cute out of this world, a litlle insecurity adding to that.
And Hywel – as a medical profesional i belive you need some exersice judged by your breathing when you has to catch up to the litlle beauty.
Thanks a lot from here
Alex/hasler
Damn – beat me to it Hasler! :p
Just a quickie to say a big thanks to you both for another excellent feature :notworthy
You’re as endearing as ever Ariel and nice work Hywel for such a well thought out production – far more extensive than I’d expected. Being able to host quarter gig videos is pretty cool too!
I must admit when I saw you guys walk PAST the carpark pay machine I kinda assumed Ariel was to be sent back alone to pay while Hywel at least pretends to drive away.. Infact I did wonder if Steve was going to make a cameo at one point 😀 Can’t figure out if that would freak Ariel or not.. hehe
Nice work.
M
P.S. was the camera hidden at all?
REALLY glad you liked it. It was something totally new and different to do, and without any actual bondage or nudity or anything I always fret a little that it may not have the impact on screen that it had in person.
All of Ariel’s reactions on this video are 100% real and what she talked about at the end in the car was really how she was feeling… she was really at the very edges of her courage. No acting involved, for once, she was just petrified.
Ariel, I’d just like to say a public thank you for being brave enough to go through with this. I hope we managed to convey just a little of what she was feeling.
Hasler, the breathing is a problem with the microphone on the little Sony handycam I used to shoot this with. The microphone on it is omni-directional, it picks up sound from all directions, and the closest thing to the microphone always sounds by far the loudest. That’s my breathing, because I’m looking at the LCD screen to shoot so it is only 20 cm away from my mouth… whereas it is trying to record sounds from 5 meters away. As a result I sound like I am about to have a coronary. I’m not that much of a heavy breather in real life! Wind noise and general rumble is also a really big problem.
To solve it I’d need to come up with some baffle arrangement on the cam to block the sounds from behind, or maybe fit an external directional microphone with a “dougal” to cut down the wind noise, which would mean it wasn’t a little pocketable cam any more. Usually we shoot with multiple cameras so I can use the sound from another one, but this time the little one was all we had. (And I do exercise and work out. I’m overweight, to be sure, like the taste of my own cooking far too much, but still fit enough to spend days in the mountains walking 🙂 🙂 🙂 )
Merlin- the camera was openly on display for the most part, but it wasn’t one of the usual big beast Panasonics, it was an amateur looking little Sony cam. I did try to keep it mostly out of view when Ariel in the clothes shop… didn’t want the staff calling the police because of a pervert trying to film the ladies’ changing rooms!
You are obviously meaner than I – I wouldn’t have driven off even in jest. This time. Ariel was at her wits’ end as it was. Great idea for next time, though!!!
:devil :devilCheers, Hywel.
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Hi Ariel,
First let me tell you how beautiful you are and how well your beauty comes out in this video.
As to the video, you either are the best actress that has ever lived, or there’s no playacting at all in it. It is wonderful and it is real.
Anybody could see you were very, very nervous. You hated having to wear your collar in public, but you were enjoying it too. As for going around barefoot, I think it was the other way around: you probably enjoyed it more than you hated it.
You wrote that this was more difficult for you than anything you had done before as a slave girl – even more difficult than enduring physical pain in spite of the fact that you are «still» (your word) not used to it. Well, I think that in time you will probably get used to going out barefoot; not so easily to wearing your collar; and that you will never get used to physical pain.
Which is as should be, of course. It is the lot of the slave girl. Am I wrong in believing it isn’t such a bad lot after all?
Cheers,
Jose :smooch
Oh, I forgot to ask. Did carrying your shoes in your hand help? It used to help my former slave girl. She hated it when I made her carry her shoes in a bag so that people couldn’t see them. She hated it even worse if I carried the bag, and worst of all, of course, if I made her leave them at home.
Well, seems like we finally found the one thing that can really punish Ariel! 😀
This was very, very fun! Besides the obvious, this video has everything that I like: real lighting, complex scenes, long close up shots of Ariels beautiful eyes, very intuitive movement (sometimes authenticity is more important than image quality….), and good editing.
@ariel: thank you for doing this! I doubt there are a lot of models who would go that far. It is obvious that your interest in this is much more than just professional, and we can see that on video. Real emotions make a person so much more interesting…
If it helps you: I doubt that all the people stared at you because of the collar. As I have already told in this forum, I met several people that wore quite explicit jewellery (even slave collars) publicly – and nobody around them really noticed. I, of course recognized them, because I know what to look for.
But the reason that people stared at you, was more probably due to the guy than permanently circled you with a video camera 😉 , and your own nervousness.People only see what they expect to see, and what they always expect are dirty little secrets 😉
If you marched into the shop, nose high and self confident, I’m pretty sure nobody would notice even if you took the scarf off.I’ve just come back to England, and I’m so happy that you’ve enjoyed the training video! I’ve been quite worried about it being boring, and it’s a great relief to find such a nice response. Thank you!
Jose, you’re right, it was definitely easier that I was carrying my shoes – I didn’t want people to think I didn’t have any! I hoped they’d just think my feet were hurting so I’d removed my shoes for a little while…. LOL. I’m really glad you liked it, anyway 🙂
And you’re also right that the collar thing was WAY worse than the bare foot thing. But it was all bad! (and good, but I could only enjoy it afterwards – at the time I just wanted to die).
Alex, I’m afraid that Hywel’s running round with the video camera only made things worse, because everyone stared more… No one said anything horrible, but a group of teenage girls looked at me, then one of them said, knowledgably – ‘ohhhh, it’s a FETISH!’ and they all giggled. I’m terrified of teenage girls anyway, so it was all awful….
I’m REALLY glad that I didn’t get forced into going back to the ticket machine on my own… To be honest, I’m not sure I could actually have done it – was all just too much! And if Steve had suddenly made an appearence too, it would have finished me off altogether…
Anyway, lovely to be back. Hello, everyone!
Another brilliant video!
Who would have guessed that something so seemingly simple would unsettle Ariel so, ballgags, strappedo, hogties …. no problem, car park ticket machine, no contest.
Ariel, can’t help thinking that 6ft 1″ blonde model in high heels! is going to turn a few heads no matter what you have round your neck 🙂 , trying to cover it up only made it worse, you should have brazened it out, (most people would dismiss it as avant garde jewelery, except teenage girls Reading it appears, now that IS scary!)…. and seen how long it took for some knight in shining armour took to rescue you from your personal paparazzi.
Carrying your shoes so everybody thought you had sore feet is of course cheating 🙁
Frank
PS where else would an Ariel go shopping 🙂 🙂
First – thanks again Ariel – it was great.
I dont understand all that shoe fuss – in Denmark it is rather common to see women whithout shoes public in nice wheather – nobody notice that. Dont belive they are all playing slaves – at least i dont see any collars.
When you say you dont dress like that going out – do you refer to the clothing or the collar??
Hywel – sorry for the exercise remarks – but i couldent resist picking a litlle at the boss – as Ariel cant unless she wants some marks or something..
Well – i could of cause be hit by punishment as well – ½ a year on damsell in distress whith cloth gags …..
sorry 🙂Ariel and Hywel – what is your oppinion on this resident slave girl shot – might be a litlle soft but very beautifull i belive:
A showe or bathtub – THE collar and the sm-factory shackels – short but comfortble chains between them.
Water – shampoo – foam – nice lighting – hairwashing – nice lights – good photo and closeups.
And very important: Ariels beauty and loveable personality – smiles – talk on the video (of cause both a pic set and video).
Just focus a litlle on the feet as well for those who love that.
Maybe she dries herself up – makes her hair and puts in a nice ballgag at the end before doing her makeup…Just a suggestion.
But most of all
Thanks again
Alex
Hi Hasler
Yes, women often go barefoot in Danemark – and no, most of them are probably not playing slaves.
Whether they are playing slaves or not, I, for one, enjoy looking at them. A woman can go barefoot because she is enjoying the beautiful weather and the sense of freedom it conveys, or she can go barefoot because she has been told to. In this case her bare feet are, for may taste, enough of a slave collar (not that I don’t like slave collars, especially if they are as beautiful as the one Ariel wears in this video).
Let me tell you a true story to illustrate my point. A couple of years ago I was walking along the Bahnhofsstrasse in Zurich with my former slave girl, who was barefoot in obedience to my orders and rather embarrassed about it. Both my former slave girl and I are Portuguese, but neither of us looks particularly Southern European. This is probably the reason why a Portuguese woman who passed us by felt free to comment loudly to her companions about my girl’s bare feet: she obviously thought we wouldn’t understand her words.
Her comment went somewhat like this: «Look at that lady! I should take off my shoes, too. My feet are killing me.»
Well, she didn’t, more the pity. But I can tell you my slave girl suddenly felt much less embarrassed about her predicament.
Dear Hywel,
How many of your videos have attracted 9 posts in two days, and 104 views of those posts?
It may be that you are on to a very good thing. Go for it!
Keep on the good work, and best of luck,
Jose
Thanks Alex,
I think your idea is very lovely – I’m all for doing something romantic and gentle occasionally – and I love the idea of putting make up on while wearing a ball-gag – that would be cool :spin :spin
And you’re right, I didn’t think I dared say anything about the heavy breathing – glad you did it for me 🙂
I’m interested that more women walk around barefoot in other European countries, I’d have been much less upset about doing it if it wasn’t so very unusual here! I think Hywel should take me to Denmark next time he wants me to do anything scary in public – and it’d be great not to be able to understand what people were saying 🙂
Hi Ariel
If ho dosent want to take you – come anyway – i take the pics and we mail them to him.. And i can translate as needed.
regards
AlexHi Ariel
Way to go Ariel. That was the bravest thing you could ever do. Your greatest video. Because you weren’t acting out anything. You where honest in the whole thing. We all got to see the real you. A very sweet and loving person who when even facing a fear. You still went though with it and faced that fear. I am sorry for even bring this collar in public up and for putting you on the spot. I just wanted to see if you would face this fear. Once again I am sorry for putting you on the spot. Forgive meMark
Hi Ariel,
If you are interested that women walk around barefoot in other European countries, here are some impressions of mine about this.
In my experience women often walk around barefoot in Germany and in Switzerland (at least in the German-speaking part of this country, although I have often travelled with my barefoot girl in the Italian- and French-speaking parts without attracting too much attention from passers-by).
There was the time in Zurich I wrote about in a previous comment, and there was another time, also in Zurich, when I went into a very posh cigar-shop with the girl heeling me barefoot: we heard some giggling then from the shop assistants.
In small towns in the Alps people seem to take it wholy in their stride. Whether this is due to the stolid nature of the Swiss or to the fact that cold wiinters, deep snow and heavy boots make you long for the time of the year when you can discard all footwear, I don’t know.
Here in Portugal women do not go around barefoot although they seem to enjoy taking off their shoes as much as women everywhere else. This may be due to some memory of the time not so long ago when many women, as well as men and children, had to go barefoot because they could not afford shoes. I’m talking about forty or fifty years ago – a short time indeed in a country’s memory.
There is a famous photo taken in the fifties by French Film maker Agnès Varda, with the title Sophia Loren in Portugal. The copy I have in my hard drive is pretty low resolution and it has unfortunately been cropped, but I’ll send it to you so that you can see an image of a country that no longer exists.
Cheers,
Jose
Don’t worry, Mark. I hated it at the time, but I’m really happy to have done the video – I enjoy thinking back to it 🙂
A lot of the BDSM stuff I enjoy isn’t much fun at the time – it’s the anticipation and the after-glow that I really love :blush :blush :blush
So I don’t blame you at all – I think it was a great idea :cheers
Just like to second that, Mark. It was a great idea! I really enjoyed shooting it, it was a challenge to do it and not have it feel totally like some clueless dweeb’s home movies but keep the “real” feel of it.
Ariel, I’m really glad you happy now you have got to the afterglow stage :love :devil :smooch
Hywel.
:smoke2
curious, what is this afterglow? i’ve seen it mentioned a few times.
FJ 😎
Oh ek ! I’ve been missing out on all the gossip! Sorry for not posting earlier, but I’ve been on holiday. Just got back and I’m trying to catch-up on all the threads…
Ariel, I know everyone else has said this already but you are a true superstar for showing off your collar in public – that took a lot of guts and determination. :twirl
Yay !! I even got a mention in the video – how cool is that! 😀 (I do apologise for specifically suggesting walking along Reading high street :blush but it was FAB and you did look stunning! :notworthy
Anyway, I think everyone here is REALLY proud of you for doing this and were all extremely lucky to have you as the ultimate RE resident slave girl. This is a great success for the site so well done Hywel and Ariel (and to Mark for coming up with the idea of being in public). :cheers
Steve
PS,
Hi FJ, I think afterglow is the “feel-good factorâ€Oh, hello Steve – lovely to see you on the forum again!
I’m REALLY glad you enjoyed the video, and that you didn’t mind getting a mention! Since the memory of how HORRIBLE the experience was has started to fade, I’ve found myself getting excited about all the other places I could go to while wearing my collar. For some reason I feel braver about going out in the evening with it on – I wonder if there should be an annual RE dinner 🙂
Ah, afterglow…. I get a bit confused sometimes about why I like being hurt. I sometimes hear masochists talking about how they experience pain as pleasure, but I don’t, usually. I experience it as PAIN, but I just happen to get excited by the prospect of it. At the time it’s awful, rather like it probably would be for a non-masochist. But the reason it’s all worth while is because of the way it feels afterwards. Whether it’s pain or just a rather scary, boundary-pushing experience of submission (like this video) the real pleasure comes from re-playing the experience afterwards. THAT’S the afterglow 🙂 It’s a combination of feeling glad it’s over, sometimes feeling proud to have managed to get through it ok, and enjoying the worst bits (especially pain) in a sort of nostalgic, re-edited way….
All very complicated, but very lovely – and one of the reasons I keep feeling compelled to do bondage modelling 🙂
Gosh, I’ve been drinking lovely chilled white wine, and I’m a bit drunk and wanting to share all my feelings. How dangerous!
Have a good weekend, everyone!
@arielanderssen wrote:
Ah, afterglow…. I get a bit confused sometimes about why I like being hurt. I sometimes hear masochists talking about how they experience pain as pleasure, but I don’t, usually. I experience it as PAIN, but I just happen to get excited by the prospect of it.
I guess this is the big difference between masochism and discipline.
Masochism is all about the hormones. It is the most physical and most technical of all BDSM styles. Beating produces serotonine and other pain killers. After a while, the body gets much more chemical comfort than it actually needs, and you get high of your own hormones.
Discipline is almost purely psychological. The mind runs havoc because of what is happening, and soon as it realizes that there is no danger, fear and pain turn into pleasure. Maybe this is the same reason why many people enjoy horror movies: the thrill without danger gives the mind a strange kind of comfort…
Ariel,
it is astonishing that you were worried that this might have been a little boring.
Honestly, one of the most amazing things that I’ve ever seen.
And very natural at that.
Cheers,
Lascap
P.S.: More of this, please. Or is this asking too much?
@arielanderssen wrote:
I’ve found myself getting excited about all the other places I could go to while wearing my collar.
Hi All
I’d kinda thought of this as a one-off but now you’ve got me thinking Ariel. mwhaaha! etc etc..
Surely upon the resident slavegirl in training regaining her nerve then we need to consider her next little “training sortie” :devil
For my vote I’d like to see a little covert bondage being added.. Maybe a rope harness, perhaps even with a crotch rope. Of course dropping a loop to form a subtle knee hobble might stop her running away from you up stairs again Hywel.. Add suitable wardrope over the top and thats about the most :nana thing I can think of.. :devilishangel :devilishangel
Any more such ideas anyone??
Cheers
M
P.S. Glad to see I’m not the only one who occasionally posts while “a bit drunk” but is such behaviour befitting the RE resident slavegirl? :oops
Ooh – how about Ariel in her collar at a theme park – maybe she could be discreetly handcuffed to a ride for the duration of it? Or Ariel shopping for groceries in her collar – or maybe (and this is my favourite) walking round a museum, art gallery or castle. All with a crotch rope – or a remote controlled shock device???
Kate x
On reflection I think I was a little to dismissive of the courage it took Ariel to venture out in her collar, even if she has now warmed to the idea in retropect (and white wine). Please accept my apologies Ariel. However I think we should allow her a little more time to reflect and chill out before chaining her to a ride at Alton Towers.
Frank
She’s had enough time to reflect and chill haven’t you, lady? This saturday ok Ariel? 😛 :singhappy
@KateTT wrote:
or a remote controlled shock device???
hehehe..
harsh
but good!
😀
M
Amazing, Ariel and Hywel. Have just seen the film..
It was really brave to go out shopping with the collar on and how you managed to lock so comfortable in public with it. I can understand your feelings. I wouldn´t dare to do the same.
I now it was a normal size camera you had filming but it most have been hard to keep it in someway hiding but still getting a really good film.
Really Well done, what will be the next place? :oz 🙂
And part 3 was just as great – wonderfull pics of the extremly cute ariel – it is so much better to see a person in a collar than just a pretty model (NOT that Ariel isent!!!)
And the clamps – not that nice but it did get us great pics and expresions.
Both of you – thanks for some of the best erotic material i has ever seen!Alex
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