August 25, 2015 at 09:05 #26208
My credo as a writer, and admirer, and lover is that the sight of a beautiful woman who is barefoot makes me feel in love with the world like nothing else does. Being tied up lovingly accentuates the divine beauty of a barefoot lady like nothing else does.
A beautiful barefoot woman that lets you tie her up has given you her most precious gift, as well as putting her safety and her life in your hands. Treat her with according care and appreciation. A captive should be wrapped like a precious gift and made to feel safe, happy, loved, and comfortable. As well as made to feel that she is beautiful and that her feet are beautiful.I think Hywel and most of you here will be with me on this. And the ideas I posited above guide the fiction I write, the photographs I look for, as well as how I treat my own precious captive. It is also these ideas that are behind any suggestions, specific or general, that I make here, and the attitude underlying any stories I post.August 28, 2015 at 07:59 #26223
As I looked over my credo I realized that it sounded a bit like I never actually have any of my damsels in actual distress. If I’m such a nice reverential guy how could I ever have or enjoy having anything mean happen to a lady in a story. I admit I’m about the gentlest Dominant you could find, which for the right lady is part of my appeal. And I lean towards consensual scenarios or at least have the “victim” eventually coming to enjoy her captivity. But even for a nice guy like me there’s something about a “damsel in distress”.
Most of the damsels distress derives not from being in great discomfort, but from the fact that since she has been tied up she is helpless and cannot prevent anything further being done to her or her feet, or her friends, or her captor abandoning her and leaving her helpless in a possibly remote location, possibly to go off and do something else bad like kidnap a friend or sister of the damsel. All she can do is futilely struggle in frustrated worry.
The key thing is that most of the anxiety/worry/anger/indignation of the damsel is mostly centered on the possibility of not being able to prevent herself or her friends/sisters, maybe even mother or daughter if age appropriate, from being taken advantage of or at least held prisoner indefinitely. The damsel has not been injured or even mentally traumatized significantly. She is afraid of what might happen, and frustrated that she can’t do anything about it. Too much distress and a story ceases to be erotic, and becomes about violence instead of arousal (I realize everyone has their own boundary regarding this issue.) Maybe you could say I like my damsels worried but not injured. And they almost always at least have the possibility of rescue or adapting with pleasure to captivity.
Note: Fear and arousal are physiologically similar. This is why some women get aroused watching a horror movie with a boy (or girl)friend. Just don’t pick too gross a movie for obvious reasons.
Mr. Nice Guy from MidianAugust 30, 2015 at 00:01 #26242
For me it is more special and a greater gesture of acceptance and trust for a woman to let me make her helpless by tying her up than to let me have sex with her. Of course sex requires acceptance and trust, but mere sex doesn’t render a woman so totally helpless and vulnerable like being tied up can.
Just before the first time I tied up a woman she crossed her wrists behind her back and then raised them to make it easier to bind them. That small gesture meant so much to me and I will never forget it. Later after I had tied this woman up and I was about to place a cleave gag in her mouth she leaned forward a little chin first and opened her mouth slightly to accept my gag. To accept me. It was a more meaningful moment than the wrist crossing. When a woman in a photo or video puts her wrists together behind her back to present them to a potential captor, or leans forward chin first to open her mouth to accept a gag it reminds me of those special moments.August 31, 2015 at 13:20 #26261
At times I’ve wondered just what (if any) connection there is between my twin fetishes. I don’t know what, if anything, a psychologist would say, but for me the link is vulnerability. Whether a woman is consensually bound for her pleasure or a damsel in distress; she is helpless. She is dependent on her captor for her well being and care, or dependent on a rescuer to free her. Most guys like feeling useful, and a helpless woman needs you.
She is also vulnerable. A tied up woman is helpless to prevent anyone from doing whatever they please with her or to her. She trusts her lover not to hurt her, or fears what might become of her if she is a damsel. I think most bondage enthusiasts have a thing for the vulnerability of a damsel.
To a lesser degree a barefoot woman is vulnerable. She must be careful where she steps, and usually walks with a delicious light tentative step. And if escape requires running over broken glass she is trapped. A barefoot woman is vulnerable to tickling. And if she is insecure about the beauty of her feet she may feel vulnerable if people can see her bare feet (Tina Fey).
On a more personal note. When I was in school on of the few good things was admiring the pretty girls and hoping they would wear revealing sandals or slipper like shoes they would slide their feet in and out of. Apparently oblivious to how insanely beautiful they were and how crazy they were making me. Seeing a pretty girls feet was like catching a stolen glimpse of a girls beautiful soul.
Barefoot and tied up: PricelessSeptember 1, 2015 at 23:15 #26268
I think we all agree here that all beautiful women should be barefoot. And all barefoot ladies should be tied up.
You must be logged in to reply to this topic.