Category Archives: SilkSoles.com

Killed it stone dead for me…

Hi Everyone,

Does anything kill a website stone dead for as soon as you get through the door?

I started my own site because no-one was making exactly what I wanted to see. Lots of people were making interesting stuff, and lots of people still are. I still join websites that I like. I joined a couple recently, solo model foot fetish sites that looked fun. The photos on both sites looked nice.

One site had nicely arranged sets in ZIP files so I could download them. The other had some ghastly Flash-based gallery system. So not only no ZIP files, but I couldn’t even easily set a web spider to download galleries I liked.

That killed the second site stone dead for me. They’ve got years and years worth of content… but I’m never going to see it. Even though I’ve paid for it. It’s just too frigging painful obtaining the photos in a suitable form to view where and when I want to view them. They had an option to download the videos but I prefer stills.

I’ve explained before the dilemma that all adult websites face to balance the bandwidth bills with the membership fees. That’s why we have a rotating members’ archive rather than leaving every set from the last 13 plus years up all the time. It’s not an ideal solution, but it reminded me that there are worse ones!

This could be why that second site is set up that way: making it difficult to just grab everything or flick quickly through sets is one of the ways websites try to limit each members’ bandwidth usage. Or maybe it is some idea of “You want to see the pics? You need to stay a member FOREVER”, which I think is misguided. It’s a little incoherent with being able to download the videos. Maybe they think that people will use less bandwidth downloading videos once rather than repeatedly streaming it to watch it every time? Videos are big compared with stills. Maybe they are right, I don’t know their usage patterns or their business strategy.

What I hope that it is a misguided attempt to make the site user friendly by presenting photosets in nice galleries to click through shot by shot. Maybe I’m unusual in preferring to download the lot and do that on my local machine, flicking between shots with only the delay from a fast SSD rather than having to download the next picture each time by manual intervention. I spent too long at the computer already- when I’m signing up to something fun like a website, I want it to make it easy for me.

Whatever the reason, it killed that site stone dead for me, which is a shame because I was looking forward to seeing, saving and enjoying their work. Sad face.

The first site had a daily download limit, which was mildly annoying, but since the limit was quite generous I downloaded all the stuff I was interested in in a couple of days. I only joined for a month but if they keep producing fun new stuff I’ll very likely go back.

I’ll never go back to the other site. So they’ve potentially lost a fair amount of money, and I’ve not got value for money from my one-and-only membership of their site, either.

I have two questions for you.

1) Is there anything that kills a site stone dead for you? I mean flaws on legitimate sites, not rip-off sites which don’t provide what they advertise. (Those I’d ask for a refund/chargeback for- I haven’t needed to in YEARS).

2) Is there anything about any of our sites which kills it stone dead for you?

I’ve tried to make our sites support the way I like to use sites I join myself, but you may prefer to use them a different way. If I’ve made it impossible for you to do so, I’d really like to know about it. So if you could post a reply here it would be much appreciated!

Cheers, Hywel

British Fetish Film Festival – 21st February 2015

Hi Everyone,

Sorry we went so quiet on the idea for a British Fetish Film Festival. We decided to move house (and country) at the start of this year and we put off organising it until we got settled.

We’ve moved, we’re settled, so now we’re organising the festival!

We plan to hold the event in Welshpool, Mid-Wales, on 21st February.

Train and road links are pretty good- we’re only an hour from Liverpool or Manchester, an hour and a half from Birmingham, and it’s not too cruddy even from London (especially on the train). Sorry we couldn’t be further north for the Scottish contingent, but it’s the best we can do 😉

We’ve found a venue who are happy to host us, we’ve got plans for how we want to run the event.

We’ll have a session for film-makers (the proposed theme of the first one is “how to make your fetish videos
look more cinematic”) and a session where we watch a bunch of fetish films. Everyone is welcome to come to both sessions, but if you’ve got no interest at all in making films you might just want to come to the screening session.

Watch this space for details of venue and prices very shortly!

The event will be invitation-only, but if you’ve got a strong interest in fetish films or film-making just drop us a line.

Exciting!

Fetish Fashion

Hi All,

We had a great shoot last week with our very own Ariel Anderssen, the fabulous Anita de Bauch and a very talented fashion designer, Claudia, the mind behind Falcieri designs.

We shot a wide variety of looks and ideas for both SilkSoles.com and RestrainedElegance.com, combining our signature elegant rope and metal bondage with Claudia’s stylish creations (some of which, amazingly, she manufacturer as we watched from draperies of fabric and a few pins and fastenings – amazing!)

As always the full photosets will be up on the sites in the coming weeks and months but here are some samples to whet your appetites!

Hywel

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Custom video – price rises

Hi All,

Grumble grumble. It looks like I’m going to have to put up the prices of custom videos. Against my will- I set the prices according to what’s cost-effective for us to shoot. But I had reckoned without the stiff penalty than all vaguely adult-related business have to pay to process payments.

The only stable ways of accepting payments for the videos are by bank transfer (great, but not always possible; there can be some charges especially for international payments but generally it is reliable and low-cost) or by putting the finished video up on Elegance Studios shopping cart temporarily so you can pay and download that way. Which is fine, but we only get a 70% payout.

Which means that in order to actually get the 100 pounds or 200 dollars we’ve priced everything up at, we’ll need to charge 150 pounds or 300 dollars 🙁

Anyone who has already agreed a custom video with us- we’ll honour the price we quoted you, of course. If we have to accept payment via the shopping cart, we’ll take the hit.

But in order for shooting custom videos to be sustainable, we’re going to have to put the prices up to cover these charges.

What annoys me is that if we were selling custom made pincushions, there are any number of payment processing options we could use with very small commissions. We’re honest and upstanding producers, we’ve been in business more than a decade, pay our taxes, and have a large pool of generally satisfied customers and repeat purchasers. But our business is regarded as “high risk”.

I’m sorry we are going to have to increase the prices because of the stigma associated with being “adult”. It doesn’t seem fair.

Hywel