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Playing to lose – Ariel Anderssen/Amelia Jane Rutherford’s spanking and bondage blog

Actual Art




Ah ha. My blog isn’t all about spanking, you know. Sometimes it’s about other things. Like bondage. NO!!! Sometimes it’s about whole other things, like normal photo shoots. And here is evidence of one, just in case you thought I’d completely lost perspective and wasn’t doing any actual proper work any more.

Wrong! Part of my trip to America involved a week’s journey with my photographer friend, who took the above pictures, and who’s website can be found at www.xanaduimages.com

I’ve been working with him for a couple of years, so we decided to travel round California and Nevada and get some location work done. He’s still working on the pictures, but I posted some of his studio pictures as a sort of warm up.

He’s a lovely chap, and is very into trying to create images of strong looking women. Alas, I do not like to look strong. I want to look like a poor, sad, orphan. But I do try, because he’s so nice.

I’ll be working on his stand at the Erotica Exhibition in London this year, so do come along and see us and all our pictures. There’ll be pictures of other models too, but I hide them under the table when he’s not looking. Urgh, other models. Amelia-Jane hates those….

A/a

Not Clever Enough for a Blog

Ha! I’m so sorry everyone; I couldn’t remember my password and so couldn’t log in and post! Suddenly remembered it, hooray! I am TERRIBLE at organising this kind of thing. If I manage to employ a bodyguard he’ll have to be in charge of passwords too….

And I’m home, back in England, and very much in love with the way it looks, with lovely golden leaves falling, and enough chill in the air for me to wear all my new knitted clothes. I bought them in Los Angeles last month, and they barely fitted into my suitcase on the return flight…

I do apologise for not posting before; from now on things should be better because I’ve got a hideous, scary Blackberry thing which I think I can post from while I’m travelling. Thank you very much indeed to everyone who likes my work and has been visiting my blog even though I’m ABSENT! Thank you, it makes me feel happy and guilty all at once.

I’ve felt so guilty that I haven’t even been able to look at all the other spanking blogs, because it just REMINDS me that I’m hopeless at posting… So I think I’ve really been punished enough, don’t you?

I’ve been having a marvellous and interesting time at work. I try to go to LA once a year, because it’s got such a high concentration of bondage and spanking producers, as well as the sort of climate that makes doing outdoor location shoots (with non-fetish photographers cos I’m less likely to be arrested that way) both rewarding and comfortable. So my September included the following interesting things (leaving out the non-kink stuff because I can’t link to it without COMPROMISING MY IMPORTANT OTHER CAREER IN POLITICS/THE SAS/THE BBC/THE FBI and all that);-

-Shooting for http://www.shadowlane.com/ TWICE! Yay! Shadowlane produces proper, feature-length movies with glamorous settings and lots of beautiful people. Wow! On the first day I got spanked by Arthur Sire, who is very attractive indeed, well done him. And Keith Jones punished me on day two. Hoorah, he’s lovely. Ladies, if you get a chance, do let him spank you, it’s like being punished by Rhett Butler;- charming but awfully firm. Mmm, Rhett Butler. I love him. Thank you Shadowlane!

-Getting over my ‘Being Spanked by a Woman Feels Wrong’ feelings, by working with Clare Fonda of http://www.girlspanksgirl.com/ and Chelsea Pfieffer of http://www.goodspanking.com/ . Well, how interesting! I’m very heterosexual, and never really fantasised about being punished by a woman; furthermore I was a bit scared that it’d hurt my pride too much. Being the victim of a big, strong man is one thing, but submitting to a lady (who will ALWAYS be smaller than me, ALWAYS) feels more threatening. I was tempted to try not to react much. And failed. Ouch, it was tough, But lovely fun, and I hope that one day I might be able to top like that. For now, I shall be content with having silly girl-crushes on any woman who CAN top properly. Woo!

-Then off I went to shoot with the lovely Jon Woods and Lorelei of http://www.americandamsels.com/ and http://www.bedroombondage.com/ . And got tied up lots. Whee, they suspended me in their garage! And let me do reverse prayer. Thank you Jon, thank you Lorelei! They were the first US bondage producers I worked with, and have always been super-supportive and kind. I do love this industry most of the time. Oh gush, gush ,gush, shut up and carry on with the story Miss Rutherford…..

Hooray, off to http://www.pavelphoto.com/ to shoot pantyhose. At least, that’s what he does with everyone else, but he always ties me up too. I’m not complaining, but isn’t it strange? Have a look on his preview page and see what I mean. Whee, thank you, Pavel – I love pantyhose (and bondage….)

And on my very last day, I trundled off to http://www.dallasspankshard.com/. And he really does, which is why he had to be scheduled last. But what lovely fun it was! He does a terrible thing, making you turn over an egg timer when he starts spanking, and then NOT STOPPING until all the sand has run through. And after that he got out a terrifying wooden paddle with holes bored through it…. Bloody hell, I do hate paddles. I kept falling over after every stroke to give myself some recovery time, but he wasn’t having any of it and held me up while paddling me. Which, I think, is deserving of some praise – I’m sure it’s a VERY tricky thing to do. Sabrina, his super girlfriend, took stills, and we had a lovely long talk about spanking. I love her! She’d organised the best costume ever for the shoot – I’ve always wanted to be a cheerleader. And she gave me the lovely white boots to take home, which I crammed into my suitcase with all the knitwear… Then I went back to my hotel, ate my very last meal from Del Taco (mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm) and flew home. 10 hours on a flight after a Dallas shoot is not to be recommended, but it was marvellous to be home.

The BDM met me at Heathrow, and we took a week off work to remember how to have a relationship and to have walks in the park with all the lovely autumn leaves. And I remembered what BDSM is like when it’s not work. Different. And perfect.

Welcome back to my blog everyone. I’ll really try harder this time!

A/a

I am the dom. The DOM!



Hello everyone. Ridiculously late post, am very sorry, as always. I’ve been Mrs Busy, and haven’t been in England much. And I’m rubbish.

But I’ve been experiencing some interesting things at work this month! I’ve been in Spain with the BDM, shooting for www.restrainedelegance.com with my friend Sammie B and Elle Tyler. And very fun it jolly well was. I try to direct 50% of the stuff we shoot on location trips because it’s too much for one person, really (even when he is a DOM). So I made up a couple of stories, and off we went. Whee! Being a director at the same time as trying to act is not ideal, because it’s very uncomfortable to criticise someone else’s performance when there’s no one there to do the same to you. But it certainly was interesting…

We started off with a harem themed story. Because the dom tends to drive the action somewhat, and the story would obviously be most familiar to me (because I’d, like, WRITTEN it) I reluctantly decided to cast myself as the ‘head girl’ of the harem, who bullies everyone else. Ouch, this meant I was going to miss out on getting tied up, which was a sacrifice, but it did mean I got the fanciest costume in compensation… Elle and Sammie played run-away harem girls who get re-captured and blackmailed by EVIL ARIEL into being her slaves while the Sultan’s away. And did I abuse my power? Oh yes I did.

A few hands-free pedicures, cruel punishments and gratuitous insults later, Sammie and Elle turned the tables on me (the relief! I have no words to describe it!) and tied me up so they could escape again. Whereupon the BDM over-rode my original ending, and decided that Evil Ariel should be whipped. Hello? Why? Does this happen to real proper doms? Errrr, no, it doesn’t. I, however, got tied to a St Andrews Cross and flogged. Hmmm, I don’t think it did my status as director much good…

After taking a break from any kind of authority while we shot the BDM’s Indiana Jones themed story, our third day of shooting found us trying to shoot a Roman Epic. With 4 people. This was my idea again, I’m afraid. I’d been very taken by the film ‘Spartacus’ when I saw it as a teenager, especially the beginning, with poor Spartacus staked out to die in the sun. So in what I’m going to call ‘a sensitive re-creation of the original’, Elle got the same treatment. Whereupon she was rescued by two seriously kinky Roman ladies, who, instead of training her as a gladiator or anything boring like that, invited her to join their bondage-orgy…

I did NOT enjoy giving up the best part (from a Damsel in Distress point of view) to Elle. Oh no I did not. But I really was trying to be professional… I got into my stride a bit with domming (I think I’m quite good at being a nasty, bitchy, bullying type, but RUBBISH at being a sensual or genuinely authoritative type….). Hooray for real doms. That’s all I can say.

A/a 🙂

I am home (and I LOVE IT)

Thank you very much indeed to everyone who’s checked my blog even though I’ve been a miserable, absentee blogger for weeks and weeks… I am home from the far off lands, and am here for a whole week, which means that I can catch up on blogging, woo!

First of all, to echo the excellent http://www.nikiflynn.com/ (ohhh, HOW do I just link to her without putting the whole bloody address? Everyone else seems to be able to do it, am I just SCHHOOpid??), if you’re feeling in need of some lovely spanking pictures and videos, please go along and join http://www.northernspanking.com/ . I love them, they do super work with fabulous girls and tremendous tops, and I’ve done some of my very favourite spanking work with them. Furthermore, they’ve been caught in some ghastly crossfire as a result of recent mentalist media interest in the spanking scene, and while they recover from it I think that having some extra members will probably make them feel better 🙂 And the more rich and successful we all get, the more powerful we’ll all be, and the more we can take everyone to court if they say horrible, untrue things about our community and the people in it. Which will be a very good thing.

La la la, I don’t have time to properly explain what I’ve been doing, (and I expect it’d be BOOOORRRRING) so I’ll make a quick little list-y so that you’ll have an idea of what kind of work I’ve been engaged in since I’ve been AWOL. Here are some of my best/worst bits, see if you can guess which is which.

a) Shooting with the BDM for www.restrainedelegance.com in the far North of beautiful Sweden, being tied up on beaches, to trees, and in our lovely ancient rented house. It never got dark so we didn’t really sleepy, but even so, it was SUPER. Hmm, I just gave you a clue about whether it was a best bit or not. It jolly well was.

b) Going to work in Switzerland with James Bertoni at the marvellous www.modelstied.com . Oh joy; he lets you wear LOADS of makeup (till your face is sort of stiff, but ever so colourful) and then does beautiful, glamorous bondage in his fab studio sets (which include a pirate ship and a jungle with real running water), while wearing high, high heels the whole time.

c) Working with www.nikiflynn.com (not the website of course, the actual PERSON, but I can’t work out how to write that so it links to her) for www.sm-circus.com ; whee, it was fun! Niki’s written about it properly, but I DID enjoy having a break from talking – being a pet-girl is a lovely holiday from responsibility…

d) Shooting pantyhose somewhere in France (still not sure where, to be honest) with a photographer who had 14 cats and no mobile phone reception at his house. Wowzer! 11 mosquitoes BIT THROUGH THE PANTYHOSE while we were shooting in the forest, YUK! But to make up for the lack of phone reception, he let me listen to my own iPod whenever we were shooting in the house. And sang along with me when required.

e) Whee! Having a date with the BDM when I finally got back to England. And loving him very much – thank you for waiting for me, BDM! We stayed in a hotel, gossiped a lot, and we were too tired to actually DO any BDSM so we just talked about it, which, it turns out, is very exciting too.

Shall try to post more before I go away again, thanks for reading, and sorry for being so sporadic!

A/a

Busy-of-the-world

I do apologise to everyone, I’m not really at home at the moment and I’m struggling with keeping up with computer-things… Maybe I should buy a tiny little laptop thing, and then I could post when I’m working away from home… Starting next week, I shall be in ;-

Fuerteventura
Sweden
Switzerland
Cologne
Paris
Milton Keynes 🙂
and Spain until mid August.

So if I’m rubbish at blogging, that will be the reason. I’ll do my best though, cos I love it….

In the meantime, I want to sort out a couple of things for people who’ve kindly commented here 🙂

Firstly – I do apologise to anyone who’s linked to me and I haven’t returned the favour. If that’s the case (or if you want me to link to you) please reply to this post, letting me know where your blog is, and I’ll sort it out. Sorry, I’m still a bit confused by how it all works…

Secondly – I’m really sorry to anyone who’s made enquiries about one-to-one spanking sessions. I’m afraid I don’t ever do them, for a couple of reasons. Mainly, although I really like doing BDSM at work, I feel a bit weird if the person who’s paying me is also the one doing the spanking – I like the top/Dom to have been hired to do the job, the same as me. I’m not sure why, but it feels like there’s more professional distance built in that way. Also, since starting my relationship with the BDM, I try to keep some things just between us, and playing privately with anyone else would make me feel as though I was taking something away from our relationship…

I imagine that if I tried to do one-to-ones, I’d be a bit rubbish because I’d be trying to stay as arms-length as possible, which I’m guessing would be reeeeeeally tedious and not very hot. Whereas when I’m making spanking films I can throw myself into it because I feel really comfortable (except for my bottom, obviously…)

But thank you very much to everyone who’s enquired, I’m very flattered 🙂

And thank you to everyone who’s kindly offered to be my bodyguard. I feel very much in need of at least one and shall be organising a rota very soon. Obviously, I won’t necessarily do what you tell me to, even if you think it’s for my own safety. In fact, I shall probably ignore you and be extremely rude if you try to impose your rules on me. Hmmm.

Mwah, mwah 🙂

Ariel and Amelia (Ariel will treat the bodyguard very well, by the way, it’s only Amelia who’s planning to be difficult…)