Survey Responses

Thank you everyone who has replied to the survey about the site design and layout.

Here’s a summary of what people have said so far. I’ve added some thoughts below.

(Q7 and Q8 everybody answered No or Nothing, but many than gave comments which I’ll discuss below).

My Thoughts

Old web designer aphorism – don’t create the site you can build. Create the site you can maintain.

The first thing is that it is a big relief that I did a decent job of the site design last time I did this. The biggest relief is that people think the site layout is OK. Not perfect of course (how could it be?) but not so bad that it needs totally binning and starting again. The survey is self-selecting and I’m probably not catching any people in the survey who were so put off by the layout that they never bought anything, but at least I’ve got the core functionality covered.

A revamp, not a total redesign.

A lot of people mentioned that the site layout is clear and fast to load and navigate, before going on to describe changes they’d like to see. (A lot of which inevitably contradict each other). The number of times “clear” and “fast” came up mean I have to retain that in the revamp and improve it if I can. I will also restore crippled video pages etc.
which were removed when ATVOD were going to inspect us to try to avoid being classified as a TV-like service – this should clearly be reinstated or simply integrated into a better layout for search/whatsnew.

The current layout works OK on most devices. A more reactive layout to better accommodate big screens, without hindering use on smaller screens is worth doing. There are a few things to look at for phones, in particular, but it is the larger screens that people find less satisfactory in the comments. Not surprising given how long ago it was that I designed the max-width of all the layout and graphics!

Navigation can be improved and a clear message from the Q7/Q8 comments is improved site search and categorisation of sets so it is easier to find particular models, subjects, videos vs. stills, etc.. Integrating the advanced search, tags,
models into a better system. This is going to the heart of the redesign.

People use both the gallery pages and the whatsnew ZIP files to download. Which is good to know – I wasn’t sure how many people just clicked the ZIP file download and looked through them on their own machine (which is what I always do personally). Several people asked for things in the comments to facilitate online browsing of sets better, like “forward-backward” arrows when browsing a photo at a time or “click to download these images” – selecting particular images from a whole set to download. The first is certainly do-able so I will Investigate switching to a “browse gallery picture-by-picture” mechanism rather than links direct to the images.

The selection of multiple images to download partial sets involves too many temporary ZIP files and file manipulation for the site’s storage and processor capacities. The site can slow down notably when I am building all the ZIP files for the month’s updates, and I don’t think that’s going to be viable without some very clever programming or (more likely) a prohibitively expensive move to more powerful servers. So I’ll say no to that one, sorry.

More news about future updates and previews. I concur, I will do that.

Top ten lists very repetitive – I think I’ll probably remove them. People are using the ratings less and less anyway.

“Too many similar images per set”. I though this when the site started, and I used to spend quite a bit of time going through each set throwing away near-duplicates to retain just the best one. Then people started asking me why there were gaps in the file numbers, and asking me for the full sets. When I uploaded them, I discovered that not everyone agreed on what makes a “better” image – they might be looking for some detail that I don’t even see. So from then on I’ve had a policy of only removing images that are technically deficient. The number of near-duplicates varies very much with who’s doing the photography – Merlin hardly ever doubles up, Steve and I tend to take two or three of a nice pose to make sure we’ve got it, Faye stays in the same place but gets notably different expressions from the model even in the same pose, and Alexander Lightspear often takes multiple very similar shots. I think it just has to do with your rhythm of shooting. I probably can cull the Lightspear sets more if people want to, but honestly it’s not very much trouble to just keep everything that’s reasonably sharp so you can decide for yourselves which are your favourite shots.

“More videos, longer videos, only videos, video for every update”. Several people asked for this. We’re not going to do video for every update – it compromises both the stills and the video quality too much in my opinion. We’re often limited by the amount of time the model can stay in the bondage safely, and especially when there’s only me taking photos or filming the video, there’s no way of getting both to RE standards at the same time. Also, selfishly, stills are my first love and even if every other website switches to videos for everything I want to keep producing really high quality stills because I love them. But I do note the popularity of videos and the request for longer videos.

Improvements to the user interface for the billing system. Oh god, tell me about it. This, sadly, is out of my control – all things to do with memberships and billing are provided by the billing company. The reason I have stuck with the same company for over 15 years now is simple – the site uptime is 100% most months, they always pay me on time, and they do not impose the sort of restrictions on content and wording of set descriptions that the bigger platforms do. I really don’t want to lose the ability to say “damsel” or “distress” or “kidnapped” on the site. To give you and example of how pressing a problem this is, a new platform was about to open up recently, serving kinky content. They literally had their billing live for *A SINGLE DAY* before they lost it – even though they had had extensive discussions and agreements with their bank in place. The current system doesn’t have a nice interface at all. But the freedom of expression element (and the reliability) is important to me. On balance I’ve decided to stick with it for now at least.

More of the content available more of the time. Yeh, sorry. I’d love to but the economics don’t make sense. I need to make sure that the bandwidth charges for a member downloading everything when the join for a single month don’t exceed the membership fee. I also need to make sure that someone can’t pirate 20 years’ worth of content for $30. I also need to give people an incentive to stay as a member rather than joining once every two years and seeing everything (or put the prices up so a one-month membership pays for two years of content). So the current balance is, I think, pretty fair. Stay as a member and you see everything new, and eventually will see ALL the old material – but you can also buy the old stuff from the carts if you don’t want to wait.

A full model index of sets, even if not all sets are currently on the membership area. That’s an interesting idea, shouldn’t be too hard to implement, I just need to make sure I make it abundantly clear which sets are covered by an RE membership you purchase today and which aren’t. I guess my concern is that it might make website membership look like poor value – as the site is only ever going to have about 1/40th of the total sets up at any one time? But I can see that it would certainly help with the unfortunate division into old and new carts.

On which subject sadly while I’d love to port all 20 years of content into a newer cart system, the data entry alone makes that prohibitive to do. I looked at the feasibility and I’d have to hire someone full-time for a year to do it, unless we had full API access and could port stuff across. I hope that one of the newer platforms might allow us to do this, but so far the data entry on them all has been SLOWER, not faster, than the old ways of doing it, requiring interactive data input of every field for every update with no way of automating it at all. So for now sadly not feasible. So maybe the “master index” idea would provide a solution? Sets could pop up with a colour-coded bar to say where you can get them – this one is on the members’ area right now, this one is on the new eStore cart, this one is on the old eStore cart. That should be ease to automate, too.

Several people disliked the paged “What’s New”. I don’t want to switch to infinite scrolling, as it can get very hard to access older sets that way. (It’s one of my pet hates for OnlyFans). But I think a grid option for what’s new would go a long way to address that and several other requests for more stuff per page, fewer words, etc.. Likely have an option to switch between the “with words” style similar to the current way and a “collapsed grid” layout similar to the current search output.

Thank you everyone, I have a much clearer idea in my head of the pages I want to provide and how to organise them now!

Cheers, Hywel

Happy 20th Birthday, Restrained Elegance!

I’ve got a terrible memory, but I remember where I was on 1st April 2001 very clearly. I was at the end of a professional trip to the USA as a particle physicist, and I had tacked on a few days holiday at the end of the trip before I flew home. On that particular day I was using the holiday to do a bondage photoshoot with Stacy Burke. After the shoot we stepped outside and were sitting at the pool in the cheap motel (with vast rooms) I’d booked near LAX. The motel had an internet cafe of sorts, and I’d just told Stacy about the little website I was launching that month for which the photos I’d just shot of her were intended.

Sitting in there in the sunshine with one of the mega-stars of the bondage industry, I showed off the site design to her and got a surprise – there was an active membership! The site hadn’t been due to go live until the 4th, when I would have been back home. But the processing company had got everything done a bit earlier, and the site was open. And I’d sold a membership before I’d even known it had gone live.

Sitting here twenty years later with a fifty-something-year-old’s cynicism, it is tempted to snark “and it was never going to be so easy to sell a membership again”. But that’s not true. In the next couple of years, sales exploded. The little website I’d launched to fund my expensive models-and-bondage-gear-and-lighting-and-lenses hobby, that I thought might possibly pay for a little holiday on top of costs some day, was making twice as much money as my day job as a lecturer.

So many land-marks have gone by. I remember 9/11 not just for the horrific attack on the twin towers, but also for the fact that I was shooting that day with Temptress Kate. I remember driving her back across town and talking about what was happening. Two decades on and she is one of the unsung heroes of the UK fetish production scene, collaborating widely, rigging and photographing and appearing on camera regularly despite the ups and downs of life. She set the pattern for the very best of the collaborations that are the reason Restrained Elegance is still around. “Kate shots” entered our vocabulary (a “Kate shot” is one shot through things. The habit of making sure we’ve got all the closeups and detail shots at the end of the set is hers. And she remains the undefeated queen of hairties).

I’ve always preferred collaborating, working in a collegiate manner with models, photographers, riggers, make-up artists and fans. And despite quitting my job as a lecturer, the urge to learn and teach and swap skills is very strong. So I ran a bondage tutorial workshop, and four out of the five participants are people still very much around. One is a regular photographic client of Ariel’s, who swaps techie nerdy info with me on a regular basis (the last time I saw him he came to the house so we could use his new colour meter on all my LED lights, so we could investigate what sort of spectrum each variety was putting out. I gather his studio is a technological marvel!)

UPDATE: I hadn’t realised because I’d lost contact, but Ariel says she still shoots with the other participant from the workshop as well. I’m very proud of that, five out of five!

Two of the photographers from that day became regulars on location shoots and you have seen reams of their work on the site: Merlin and Steve. We’re all really good friends and we can’t wait for the day when COVID recedes and we can book our next location shoot together. They helped us build our infinity cove in the last house, rigged up the suspension point and winch, and added “Merlin shots” (which are the ones with very tilted “Dutch” angles) to the RE vocabulary. Steve was responsible for kick-starting Elegance Studios and in many ways has led the charge for a more cinematic visual storytelling style in our films. Merlin’s just started a Restrained Elegance FaceBook group for us.

The final collaborator on that day was of course Ariel Anderssen. Reader, I married her. We’ve had so many bondage adventures and now live a very eccentric life of OnlyFans, cuddly toys, ineptitude at being grown ups, and a great deal of BDSM. We have a house with a genuine stone dungeon in it. We’re still not quite sure how that all happened. But we’re very grateful!

Of course not everything has been a bed of roses (or if it has, the roses had the thorns left on them). Last night I had a huge clip order go through, and I’m concerned that it might be a pirate with a stolen credit card and am awaiting the possible huge charge-back and appearance of a stack of our films on pirate sites. Piracy has been a feature of the internet since the early days, but it only got properly into its stride with the advent of tube sites. Not to bang on about it, but if somewhere is offering you the chance to see full movies of lots of different producers for free, the odds are the footage is stolen. (https://boundflix.com/en actually pays producers to feature their work, but few others do. The payouts from places like ModelHub are desultory.)

The vast majority of the models I’ve collaborated with have been a pleasure to work with, and some have turned into close work colleagues and friends. I’ve only had one genuinely bad experience (beyond the occasional model flaking off with phony excuses, anyway). The timing is entirely coincidental, but as it happens we made a video about it for Ariel’s YouTube channel which is also up today:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GNkypBLsQE8

Obviously the industry is not perfect, but both Ariel and I love being a part of it. And we love working with our RE regular cast a crew, especially the “location shoot” teams. Sophia Smith, Faye Taylor, Zoe Page, Fi Stevens, Kobe Lee, Lucy Lauren, Hannah Claydon, Janey, Jasmine Sinclair and Chanta Rose from the early days, Natalia Forrest, Paige Robbins, Penny Lee, Pling, Sabrina, Sammie B, Tillie and more… and we can’t wait to finally get to add superstars like Chloe Toy, Ashley Lane, Cobie, Kitty Quinzell, Lauren Louise, Rachelle Summers, Scarlett Foxett and more to the location shoot list as soon as we can. And there are so many new models I’d love to collaborate with whose twitter feeds and OnlyFans I’m following with great interest in the meantime!

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Norway. Snow Queens and Viking girls.

Another major collaborator over the years is someone I’ve never met. He sent me an email with some photos maybe 15 years ago in the aftermath of the bondage tutorial asking if there was a way he could get some of his photos onto Restrained Elegance and maybe do some work together somehow. I was used to international collaboration though CERN, so it sounded like it might work, but I wasn’t completely sold on the idea. Then I scrolled down the email and saw this photo.

OMFG yes send me photos right now. His name was Alexander Lightspear. And hers, you obviously already know – Delta.

Some producers got a bit sniffy about Alexander Lightspear shooting for websites, something denigrating about “buying in content from Russians”. To which my only response was “Have you SEEN Delta? Foxy? Lilith?”. How could anyone pass up the chance to have these amazing models professionally and creatively photographed with great rope-work on their site? Your loss, dudes, your loss. And our gain!

I have plenty of input into these shoots, as with all RE shoots. I give general direction, choose the model, advise on location, we’ve worked together over the years and agreed on technical aspects, fine-tuning the stuff they shoot together for us to fit in with the RE style and ethos. And as with most other collaborators who’ve worked on the site, I get the RAW images and I process them in the RE style. I have as much input as I do with location shoots where Kate and Steve and Merlin are shooting all around the house and I’m running around being the general dogsbody.

And one of the things I’m most proud of is that Delta is still shooting for Restrained Elegance, even though she’s retired from other shoots to concentrate on her mainstream career.

Like pretty much everything else about running Restrained Elegance for the last twenty years it is an honour and a privilege and a huge thrill to have some of the most creative and imaginative global superstars featured on my little hobby site that I built myself from hand-written HTML and which went live on April Fool’s Day in 2001, a few days early, leaving me with the eternal “no, it’s not an April Fool, it really is our birthday” that I’d never have chosen for myself!

COVID has been a bugger, but the RE community has come up trumps. We’re shooting, we’re updating, we have collaborators all over the world shooting in the RE style for the site without us even being there. We’ve even got new collaborators joining in- you’ll see the result of Lou Lou Petite and Dick Bush Films shooting for us before too long, they’re just in post-production now.

Ariel and I are shooting every week, and she’s filming a lot of behind the scenes for her OnlyFans (check it out at https://onlyfans.com/arielanderssen to see how we do things. You’ll see what I mean about eccentric).

(Classic Kate shot, that!)

The industry has been through wave after wave of change in 20 years, which is unsurprising since the industry didn’t really exist 5 years before that. Platforms come and go. Governments crack down, then realise they can’t. (Eventually I hope they’ll realise they shouldn’t: preliminary indications show that violence against women tends to go down, not up, when erotica becomes more generally available). The shift that liberated photographers from the need to pander to magazine clients is now onto the next phase, liberating models from the need to pander to photographer clients. We’re very lucky in having a photographer-model partnership in house so we can get the best of both worlds – I wonder if in 10 years time it is the photographers who will be travelling to the models, and who will have pressure to work prints-for-time.

It’s astonishing really that the basic model – I make photosets and videos I think are beautiful, I put them on the web in as high a quality as the bandwidth will stand, people buy them individually or as part of a subscription service – is still viable. Long may it remain so!

I would close by saying I hope you’ve had as much pleasure, enjoyment and entertainment from Restrained Elegance as we have, but I doubt that’s even possible. So I’ll just say thank you from me and from everyone who has been a contributor and collaborator on the website, your support has just been the best, and I hope we can continue to entertain you for many more years to come!

Happy Birthday Restrained Elegance!