Unfulfilled Fantasies – What does this mean?!

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  • #10636

    Ariel Anderssen
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    Merlin, your girlfriend must have such fun! Thanks so much for your suggestions, I was never expecting such a great and varied response. I’m overwhelmed 🙂

    Thanks very much, Lockjaw. I’m going to plan a catburgler/cuffs story, and will very much look forward to hearing your thoughts on how to use the antique cuffs sometime – can’t wait 🙂

    To everyone who’s responded, I can’t thank you enough for your inspiration; I’ve taken a note of everyone’s ideas, and will add them to my list of things I’d love to shoot for RE over the coming months 🙂

    In the meantime, I’m working with Hywel this week on his short film, and all is going beautifully, with lovely performances from all concerned. I’m helping out with directing, and am finding that telling groups of people what to do is REALLY hard for a submissive, I feel like a big fake. So I’m pretending to be Hywel, which is helping a little 😉

    Hope everyone else is having a splendid week; I’ve got a couple more questions I’d love to ask anyone who’s willing to reply, so I’ll post again as soon as I’m home for long enough. Take care, everyone 🙂

    #10637

    Charles666
    Member

    Ariel, that is great news. I am really looking forward to the set. And thank you for being so open to suggestions.

    I must say I winced with sympathy when you talked about your bruises. I hope that is not a regular occurance.

    #10638

    Ariel Anderssen
    Moderator

    Hello again Lockjaw :spin

    I’m rather pleased when I get bruises, I’m afraid – because it’s a lovely reminder of the handcuffs when I’m not wearing them anymore…..

    I wonder if that’s very strange? I’ve always wanted to spend hours and hours wearing handcuffs 🙂

    #10639

    Rayy
    Member

    Heh, Just read with interest your comments re actually secretly liking the odd bruise, I’ve heard this before but if its not too personal may I ask if you would still make the person who applied the cuffs or whatever feel guilty for days afterwards? My D/S experience is limited and I’ve always wondered if thats something ALL Subs do.. Much like begging and pleading even crying for mercy when caged etc and then later moaning about being released (I know I’m a wimp..) lots of ” I could have taken it really / a good Master wouldn’t take pity….” blah blah grrrrr. Sorry if thats going off topic or a bit personal, just wondered for ages if this is just part of the game..

    Glad to hear you guys had fun with the film project, I must confess I’ve been a bit indifferent in the past but am now genuinely curious to see more. Quick question Ms Director, (apologies in advance for being a photography bore) did you shoot in DV or is Hywel sufficiently luvvie to use 16mm? 🙂

    Cheers

    P.S. More steel, less feet please!

    #10640

    We shot on DV using two Panasonic DVX100 cameras. These record in 25 frame per second progressive scan, which gives a much more “film-like” quality to the images (and coincidentally makes them look much better when used as a source for video clips for the web).

    To be honest I didn’t even consider shooting on film. It is a technology with which I am utterly unfamiliar, it is much more expensive, it would have involved hiring in kit rather than buying it and having the kit for future RE shoots. (I had one of the Panasonics already but the second one is the improved model with lots of new little features… like autofocus which works in progressive scan mode!) Plus we couldn’t have edited it or used After Effects on the footage afterwards.

    Better all round to go with what I know- and if the final verdict on the film is “wonderful film, shame about the DV quality” I will know to shoot on something different if there’s ever a next time! I guess it is just as likely that the verdict will be “nice try, but no banana” :nana in which case I’d rather solve the other problems first for next time and worry about purely technical quality issues later.

    There was enough of a learning curve with having 15 people at the studio rather than 3, having the luxury of someone to hold the boom so we could get better sound, and spending three days shooting what it likely to be 15 minutes of finished film I think! :crazy :crazy

    Cheers, Hywel.

    #10641

    Ariel Anderssen
    Moderator

    ha! It was me holding the boom – I became distracted by what an interesting gag it would make… I tried goading Hywel into punishing me by generally crashing around, being a bit incompetent and bossy, and even criticising his decisions, but he wasn’t having any of it, was far too busy…..

    Hello Merlin, lordy, no you’re not being too personal at all; I joined the forum because I wanted to have some proper honet discussions about all this (and secretly spy on you all so I’d know what to suggest for shoots that you’d like).

    I don’t like complaining afterwards, it seems a bit rude, and I certainly don’t want to make my Master feel that he’s gone too far; who wants an apologetic dom? But yes, I do sometimes finding myself begging for him to stop, only to be disappointed when he actually listens and does stop. This seems like a very complicated problem, and I’m not sure what the answer is. I suppose having a specific ‘safeword’ which is the ONLY thing that gives the submissive partner back some control of what’s happening – that’s probably the answer. But having a safeword seems a bit artificial to me…

    What a lovely strange world it is :spin

    #10642

    Charles666
    Member

    Ariel, that certainly was not the answer I expected about the bruises. But still – wouldn’t one bruise remind you of your experience? Or is that a difficult goal and where the master’s touch comes in?

    Well, here are some sets where I feel your rusty old-fashioned handcuffs would be an elegant part of the story line:

    Use them with the pirate’s costume as a bucaneer whose luck has run out.

    Use them as part of an American western theme where the bandit cowgirl has been rounded up. That could mean a lasso around you as well so they can drag you back.

    Use them as part of Hywel’s Russian spy series where you are in the cage and your hands are cuffed outside the bars.

    Well, Ariel, I must echo what others have written about the forum being much more interesting with you in it.

    #10643

    Oh don’t worry Ariel I was taking full note of every infringement but I didn’t think you could direct or operate the boom very well if tied up, so I’ll defer all the punishments to our next shoot! :devil :devil :devil

    Cheers, Hywel.

    #10644

    Rayy
    Member

    Hi Ariel

    Apologies, just read my last post and thought “surely I didn’t write that..” Must confess I was feeling a bit sorry for myself while nursing a baaad hangover. Sincere thanks for your input but I’m a bit embarrassed that I kinda used you as a kinky agony aunt. Not really what you’re here for, have now run up a huge phone bill but got some issues sorted nicely. I’m sure your time could be put to many better uses as detailed in the previous couple of pages heheh.

    Which reminds me, couple more for your little book that came up in conversations last night;

    -Never seen any electricity play on the site, personally I dont want to but I said I’d mention it. E-play always strikes me as being a pure torture which , as far as I’m aware, is not what RE is about.

    -Bridal Bondage, ok, thats sooo my idea this time. Pretty sure its been done before on this site but not for a while. Maybe even rope in the odd bridesmaid..javascript:emoticon(‘:spin’)
    smilie

    Thanks Hywel, I was pretty sure you’d work in DV, I mean in this day and age who wouldn’t. Saying that, I’ve seen a few film noire and arthouse kinda sets which made me wonder if just maybe you’d go mad and hire cams / lenses / dollys etc and spend a squillion bucks editing it down. Spent the afternoon before Christmas on an “MTV Dumb Ass” shoot filmed in JUST the same manner as you describe, although perhaps a steadier boom operator… javascript:emoticon(‘:D’)
    smilie

    Surely this doesn’t mean we’re going to see multi camera directing on regular RE vids does it? Can’t think of a similar site with video on par with RE as it is and starting to wonder if you get too professional then a certain quality might be lost, does that make sense? Probably not.

    Thanks both.

    #10645

    Actually we have had multi-camera-angle shooting for almost three years- it is just that the second camera wasn’t on a par with the main one, quality-wise. When I am having to shoot, direct and be in the clips it is almost essential to have several camera angles so that when we come to the edit I have some choice- without someone behind the camera there’s a good chance that the action has managed to move off-camera!

    I would ideally like to have a professional cameraman for all the video shoots. I’m not the greatest cameraman in the world, especially when I am in front of the camera! But that would change the feeling of the shoots quite a bit (and cost a lot) so it isn’t something I’ll be doing a lot of.

    By contrast, the long-term bondage shoot that we did was very much back to basics- single camera kept rolling and minimal editing. That was a deliberate choice, think you’ll like it and it gave me a chance to focus on the action.

    I have done some electrical play with an electric zapper, the violet wand, and electrified cage (Ariel can attest to that one) and even an electrified butt plug with Rose Wood… and we did some violet wand stuff on the long-term bondage, which Ariel will be telling you all about as soon as I have it ready to go up.

    Cheers, Hywel.

    #10646

    Ariel Anderssen
    Moderator

    The electric cage! Ouch! Had forgotten that…. And don’t worry, Merlin, it’s not all that painful, certainly not pure torture – just a little bit torture-ish, but in a nice way :oops The problem with shooting it seems to be that it’s not necessarily particularly visually interesting – although the violet wand is beautiful 🙂

    And again, don’t worry Merlin, I was thinking I’d rather like to be a kinky agony aunt – I wonder if there’s much of a call for it… Funny that you mentioned the bride/bridesmaid idea – I was just mentioning it to Hywel the other day (I think he did a bride set ages ago, but never a very bad bridesmaid who needs to be restrained….). Lovely idea, and I have a bridesmaid dress, as I’m sure do lots of the other girls…..

    Lockjaw, love your ideas; had never thought of handcuffs being used with the cage – great plan. I’ll have to show the rusty handcuffs to Hywel and see if he likes them too 🙂

    #10647

    Rayy
    Member

    Heh, the electric cage.. sorry Hywel I’d also forgotten that particular work of evil genius.

    Truth be known I think I deleted it as a safety precaution, living with my partner at the time and I could just hear her saying oooh can we try that which of course would cost me about 300 bucks and quite a few hours of engineering.. Nice original work though, bit spikier than I tend to imagine as a “typical” RE set, but I/we look forward to seeing more such sets on RE Nights.

    Just out of interest.. whos idea was the electric cage?

    Cheers.

    P.S. Oooh where the hell can I buy a Jennie-69 and how long do the batteries last :jumping

    #10648

    The electric cage was my idea, occasioned by seeing the side-effects on using the violet wand around something with a higher capacitance than the average slavegirl’s body.

    It didn’t take much engineering- it wasn’t actually the cage that was electrified, it was Ariel. Just taped the electrode of the violet wand to her bum. That meant that static built up in her body until she got too close to the cage, at which point the spark jumps the gap in just the same way as a static zap gets you when you touch a doorknob after walking on cheap hotel carpets!

    One of my better ideas, especially when I blindfolded Ariel… :devilishangel :devilishangel :devilishangel

    As to where you can get a Jennie-69… only in your dreams and right here at Restrained Elegance I guess! LOL :tongue

    I’m shooting with Jenny again later this month if all goes well, so if you’d like to see a sequel to the Jennie-69 storyline just let me know.

    Cheers, Hywel.

    #10649

    steven
    Member

    Ariel
    If I may be so bold, I would like to add my suggestions for a possible shoot.
    I really like straps/belts being used in bondage, as once they are done up, there’s no escape, and if the model is flexible, you can always tighten them one more notch to add to her predicament!
    So, having been captured by the evil Doc, you are made to strip to your undies (bra, knickers, stockings and high heels – what else!) he straps your ankles, knees and thighs so you can’t run away! Then he puts your arms in a single glove, and laces it up so your elbows are touching. Just in case, he then straps a belt securely pinning your already bound arms.
    Then a training collar is attached, and you are leashed standing to a post.
    Finally, just in case you decide to call for help, a nice big fat rubber harness ball-gag is stuffed in your mouth and buckled up nice and tight!
    You are then left to your own devices for an hour or so while the evil Doc decides what to do next with you! If he needs any help for suggestions, I am always on hand – you know where to find me!
    TmT :iconhungry

    #10650

    Ariel Anderssen
    Moderator

    Hi Tmt,

    Ah, I like that idea! I don’t think I’ve really seen belts being used much in bondage – I think it would be fabulous. I’ve also never had a chance to wear a single glove, ooh, I would love it – I really like having my elbows together behind my back, it makes me feel more vulnerable than anything else. I wonder if Hywel has one? And naturally a harness ball gag – what else?! I love collars too, I have a big wide black leather one that I wish I never had to take off (grrr, I’ve kindly lent it too my big sister so she can go to a fancy dress party). What kind of collars do you prefer?

    Thanks so much for your input, it’s so lovely to hear about what people really want to see… 🙂

    #10651

    steven
    Member

    Hi Ariel
    Glad you like my little idea – now all we have to do is convince the Doc!
    My favourite collar is one I bought for my last photo shoot with Petra – it’s got cuffs that padlock to the collar. Very sexy – methinks you’d look great in it! ???
    Keep getting bound’n’gagged
    TmT

    #10652

    Ariel Anderssen
    Moderator

    hmmm, Tmt, you are a mystery…

    ‘My favourite collar is one I bought for my last photo shoot with Petra – it’s got cuffs that padlock to the collar.’

    I wonder if this means you’re a photographer? Or does it mean you’re a model who’s been working with Petra? Are you secretly Doctor Phillips in disguise?

    Either way, that sounds like a lovely collar – very nice to talk to you (unless you’re actually Hywel, in which case – WHAT ARE YOU PLAYING AT? YOU’RE CONFUSING ME!!!)

    #10653

    … it ain’t me…

    Hywel.

    #10654

    steven
    Member

    I have been known to dabble in my spare time – but I’m not a pro like the doc.
    TmT

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