This week I am having work done on my flat in preparation for letting it out (and buying a house with the BDM, which might take a while due to solicitor-related DRAMA), and my first visitor was an electrician, who basically moved in for 3 days. Fortunately, the super people at Bars-and-Stripes.com were on-hand to kindly offer me accommodation and generally abuse me for a few days, so I wasn’t around to see my poor little flat being sliced apart. (more to follow on the B&S shoot – it was super but I don’t have any pictures yet).
But I’ve never had people I didn’t know in my flat before, and it caused me some problems. To what extent should one de-kink one’s flat when strangers are coming to work there? Well, I’m not the kind of girl to have modelling pictures all over my walls (too depressing in the morning, really, when your reflection bears absolutely no relation to the photograph), so that wasn’t a problem. One of the BDM’s pictures of me is normally up in the hall (it glares over my shoulder if I’m looking in my bathroom mirror – spooky!) but I’d already packed it away…
The horrid thing is that you become blind to your own surroundings after a while. It took some serious concentration to spot a riding crop hanging on the front door (I hid it in the wardrobe with the Janus magazines and all my hats) but even after wandering round and round the flat trying to see it through vanilla eyes, my problems weren’t over.
If I was left in someone else’s flat, I think I might look in their cupboards. I realise that this is not a good thing, and I do hope that perhaps I wouldn’t, but I MIGHT. So, it follows, my electrician might well do the same thing.
So I had a look in my drawers in order to see the contents through his eyes. (A bit loony, you might say, since I hadn’t even met him yet…) Hmmm. I suddenly realised that I didn’t want him to know I was sub. Somehow I felt as though it would be altogether less shaming if he thought I was some sort of ball-breaking, leather-clad dominatrix. Why? I suppose that maybe it’d make him want to do an awfully good job with my wiring? Or maybe just because it’s so far from the truth that I wouldn’t feel exposed? Or am I a little bit ashamed of being submissive – I do hope not!
Anyway, I took everything that looked vaguely ‘toppish’, of which I have very little. Actually corsets are pretty much all I have, along with some little leather outfits which I never wear…
And I hid anything more incriminating underneath. Cos, OBVIOUSLY, no one would rummage THROUGH a stranger’s drawers? Surely they’d be content with a little look at the top layer?
And off I went to my shoot, obsessing all the time. Good lord, how will I cope if and when I live in a house with an actual DUNGEON?
A/a
I have been in a LOT of ‘interesting’ houses as a telecomms engineer. Properties that we know to be ‘interesting’ we normally turn up mob handed, you never know when you may need another pair of hands to help move a heavy whipping bench.
My house is very NOT vanilla, we get odd looks sometimes but who cares?
My house is very vanilla but I do have a bad habit of my own, or my partners toys around.
The usual place is the bathroom, not unusual to see a freshly scrubbed butt plug on the window ledge next to the shampoo.
I hope that frosted glass is as opaque as I think it is…
Careful if this guy turns out to be a bottom or sub and he thinks that your all domineering, he may screw up the job on purpose, to try and get a good whipping from you 🙂
Prefectdt
Leave the whip in plain sight in the hall, put a copy of ‘Horse & Rider’ and some dirty wellies next to it – no one thinks twice.
John
Hey, if people are inclined to snoop, they’ll be wise to all the obvious tricks of hiding things. Don’t start tearing up the floorboards to hide yourself away. Being sub is NOT something to be ashamed of, but if you just don’t want the exposure, by all means put some scary domme stuff out in plain view. Though be careful: Prefect is right about those subbie male tricks!
If I put myself in your position, I would be as paranoid about someone discovering something. If I put myself in his position, it would be amazing to discover that incredible girl is so kinky. I wouldn’t have any reason to screw the job up on purpose, but I’d likely mess up something with my mind off elsewhere. 🙂
This photo you included in this post is a masterpiece.
Informative article!! I like phone sex and teasing badly to girls on phone…
Interesting pictures! You are right, I agree with you. I like big dildo into my girl’s asshole and licking her pussy for hours. The picture is looking really very fantastic. Wow…ecupers
I just like phone sex before having sex…
Relationship is only a feeling you give importance to.
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