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  • #9102

    samurai
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    Howdy!

    Was just wondering, why did everyone join the site? Was it a particular shot you saw somewhere? Or just a drunken moment of madness… :drink

    Also curious as to how you found out about Restrained Elegance…was it a link on a site, or a review or word of mouth (you never know LOL)

    Comments appreciated as it may help me to get more people to click the join button, which will in turn give Hywel more money, which will mean he can buy lots of evil things to be mean to Ariel with…..

    Kate x

    #11602

    roman
    Member

    The first thing I saw of RE were some pictures of Jasmine Sinclair, that were linked on some other page. Indeed, it took me a while to realize that most of the pictures that I liked came from the same site.

    It still took me a couple of years before even thinking about joining. I just didn’t have the self-confidence to get into something that I had no legal knowledge of, and had no idea what I would get for my money. So the first site I ever joined was a german site that looked very decent and trustworthy, and had a big preview site, including snippets of their videos.

    I left it after a year or so, because I had the feeling that the picture themes repeat after a while, and the videos I was so keen for, just didn’ come so regularly as I wished.

    In the meanwhile, I casually visited the preview section of RE. A few months later, the front site was reworked, and you previewed one of the videos. When I saw this, I thought it may be worth a shot.
    First, I wanted to reject because I neither have a private credit card nor a paypal account. But then I saw the editorial and saw, that RE is located in GB. So I thought: “Hmm, maybe if I ask, they will accept a bank transfer as well. So I wrote Hywel, he accepted, and I paid.

    So for me, the biggest obstacle was the paying method. I don’t use credit cards, and at least in Germany I know very few people that do. Bank transfers within europe are for free or extremely cheap now, but transferring e.g. to USA is unbelievable expensive, so this fact alone hinders me to join several american sites.
    The second big obstacle for me were the previews. I just had very little idea of what I will get, and if the site is trustworthy.

    In retrospective, this sounds absolutely laughable, but I think the biggest issue in any bargain is trust, and this is hard to come by in the world wide web…

    #11603

    Big Man
    Member

    Well as I mentioned in another post, I followed Jade over here. She posted on her forum that she would be appearing in the Bondage X-Factor, so I waited patiently until Hywel posted the X-Factor shots, then joined, voted for Jade, and enjoyed the images.

    The site is enjoyable and the picture and model quality are both top-notch. Several of the models are exceptional, but if one is diligent, one can find exceptional models lots of places on the web.

    Bondage theme sites are not as numerous, of course, and I have to admit that bondage models tend to look harder and rougher and less girly than, say, standard adult non-fetish sites. In that respect, the majority of the Restrained Elegance models still look very much, umm, girly (for lack of a better word). Everyone has personal preferences and I tend to enjoy very feminine submissive models in bondage. So I am sticking around primarily to see more Jade but also because Hywel has excellent taste and I like what I see.

    Plus, it JUST SO HAPPENED that the membership price dropped right about the time I was deciding and so I got a good deal. And now of course I’m trapped because the price is going up and it sounds like my membership is grandfathered at the lower rate. So if I quit and rejoin there’s a penalty.

    And, you know, two updates a day is a VERY GOOD DEAL, even if one is from the archives. Since I’m new, I haven’t seen the archived shoots anyway. It was a treat to see an archived Stacy Burke shoot a day or so ago. And it was a pleasant surprise to find Chanta here. And the occasional video is nice as well. Gee, it sure would be cool to see a video of Jade and Chanta. :;):

    Also, I tend to join a site for a month once or twice a year, catch up on posts, then move on. Those sites generally update weekly and seeing new content only four out of every 30 days isn’t as engaging. This is actually the first site I am considering staying with on a regular basis.

    And I like reading the forums. And while this forum is not as busy as some, it is almost always interesting. And you get bonus points for having posters who don’t use terms like n00b, teh hotness, pwnage, etc. The occasional LOL doesn’t bother me but my preference is English over Leetspeak.

    That’s my story.

    #11604

    Charles666
    Member

    I am not trying to flatter you, KateTT, but I joined when Hywel ran the set of you in handcuffs many years ago. That was a very film noir set, but quite nice.

    I am a handcuff guy and quit after a few months because there was so little handcuff bondage in those earlier days. I came back a year later and stayed because of the forum. Hywel granted a request I made and shot a set with Petra as a captured cat burglar (still my favorite set).

    The forum is the something extra that makes this site worth staying for, along with the photography, costumes, beautiful women & just plain creativity. Also the number of handcuff sets has increased, though at glacial speed. :;):

    Oh, and I think I first saw a link to RE on the old Archives BBS site.

    #11605

    renlleoz
    Member

    I came across RE through google years ago. The first set I saw was Myla in a pink catsuit. Completely caught my imagination, signed up as a member straight away and never looked back!

    I’ve looked through other web sites but there’s nothing as stylish as RE. I got fed up with seeing poor quality images with very unimaginative ties, terrible rigging techniques and you get the sense everything was just thrown together. This is why I think RE clearly stands out from other sites and it definitely ticks all my boxes.

    Kate – love your thinking here, Hywel making more money to be to be even more mean and evel to Ariel….. Nice… :cheers

    #11606

    aonurag
    Member

    IIRC I first found RE through searching for “bondage artwork” and finding Hywel’s drawings. I joined the site in [checks] May 2001 (early days!). And I’ve been a member ever since because Hywel and I share many of the same tastes, and because he’s posted *lots* of photos, giving good value for the money. In particular:

    o Lots of barefoot bondage photos, both in absolute numbers and in terms of percentage.

    o High resolution & high quality photos

    o A high proportion of photos to video (truth be told, I don’t much care for video; I much prefer to look at photos).

    o Elegance. The models are elegant – “glamor in bondage” and the style is elegant. As opposed to the “amateur snapshot” and “grungy industrial dungeon” style of many other sites.

    o Costumes. Exotic costumes and clothing. And models who are well-dressed & barefoot, vs “nude except for high heels.”

    [At a tangent: I’d like to suggest sets of models bound in saris. Also more sets of models bound in ancient costumes (togas, or whatever the female equivalent is), also more sets with harem or dancing girl costumes.]

    o High quality metal restraints. It’s not an exclusive thing, and I wouldn’t want it as an exclusive thing, but I do appreciate it as a frequent element in the mix.

    o Not too many gags. I can take gags or leave them, and I’m glad that RE isn’t an “all gags, all the time” site.

    o Did I mention the high proportion of barefoot bondage? I confess I am a big fan of that, to the point of “If the model isn’t barefoot, she isn’t in bondage, she’s just… tied up.”

    o And last but not at all least, the beautiful models. And the way they’re photographed to bring out their beauty (as opposed to making them look dirty in both the sexual and the literal “covered with dirt” senses).

    #11607

    R 21
    Member

    I discovered this site looking for pictures of Rosaleen Young, kept returning to check out the previews, and eventually joined to see more girls wearing ball-gags and more Belle. :stiffdrink

    #11608

    samurai
    Member

    Wow! Really insightful stuff. I

    I find it interesting, Lockjaw, that you stuck around due to the forum. I did my last shoot for RE in November 2002 and I cannot for the life of me recall what the forum was like at that point. Also Marius, having read the other thread, I am very surprised that credit cards are not frequently used in Germany. I notice that Hywel has added the bank transfer option to the join page – you can never have too many options!

    It would be really cool to also see what more newer members like Shutterbug think – if there are any lurking come on and show yourselves!

    Any requests for handcuff sets for France, Lockjaw? And we shall have to pack the ballgags for Grumpy! I like your sari suggestion a lot, Lurker – I am a big fan of floaty costumes that can conceal and reveal and be peeled away.

    Kate x

    #11609

    stonks
    Member

    My Story is very much like Marius.
    I too had come across Jasmine Sinclair and found RE linked to some of her pics. I was smitten by her pics, in the days before she changed her hair colour. Then I followed RE for a while before I even found out about the forum, and well the rest is history.
    What kept me here? Well I think its a cross between the quality and effort that is put in to the pictures and the community. Also I think its nice to interact with the Models, Kate and Hywel.

    #11610

    Charles666
    Member

    KateTT,

    You get my attention when you ask me for a handcuff set request.

    I would love to see another cat burglar set – with the cat burglar ending up in hinged handcuffs!

    The forum was quiet in the early days, but Hywel always answered requests & questions in a friendly way. The forum really took off when Ariel started posting.

    #11611

    j71
    Member

    Hi Kate,

    I’d come across examples of Hywel’s work at various times on the internet, eg unintended search results on usenet binaries, and been rather taken with quality of them both photgraphically and artistically. Compared to many others which were, well the words that spring to mind are tawdry, exploitative, misogynistic …. with in many cases any feeling of consensuality, enjoyment or fantasy missing, I guess by virtue of the fact you are reading this you know what I mean…..

    To get back to the plot it wasn’t until I mistyped aerial in a google search that I came across RE proper, looked at the preview, saw the site was seemingly run by a real person with a real passion not a faceless porn corporation. Did a quick Google on Hywel, decided he was indeed a real person, had a few doubts about how comfortable I would/should be looking at the pictures/videos) and joined for three months …………… coming up for a year ago.

    So Kate to your market research, many of the others have comented about the great content, so I won’t repeat it, but rather talk about a couple of things that held me back.
    Firstly one of the things that stopped me searching RE out a few years ago was not wanting to hand my credit card details over to some faceless corporation for repetitive billing, with all the grief (and embarrassment) that could follow if it went wrong.
    Secondly whilst I had only enjoyed bondage as a participant, if I was going to become a voyeur as it were, I had to be sure the site was … I suppose the word is ethical, especially that the models were taking part freely and, enjoying the experience, even if acting the contry or doing things outside my comfort zone. Not being forced either literally or by force of circumstance to take part.

    I guess what I’m saying is in addtion to simply knowing about the site and it’s content, people have to feel comfortable for a myriad of reasons, in joining up.

    Frank

    #11612

    fastfreddy
    Member

    Hi,
    I forgot where I saw the first link, but any site with beautifull ladies wearing steel collars and slave irons is bound to catch my attention. (I went for at least two years before joining ANY site. It wasn’t untill limited, non-rebilled memberships came along that I took the plunge.)

    I also tend to join for a few months and come back later. But, with two updates a day……at least something that floats my boat will come along. (Ropes and regular handcuffs don’t do it. The web is loaded with that stuff.)
    I wish I had caught the price increse in time – thats what happens.

    One of the other sites that caters to steel over leather and rope is just about dead. (Nothing new in months, just a few archive updates a month.) So right now, your in the number one spot!

    #11613

    blondasse
    Member

    Thank you Kate for the questions. I too saw your pictures on Restrained elegance and have been joined many years. You are beautiful. Maybe you model again here?

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