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September 13, 2008 at 23:45 #9627
The list of things where I agree with Hywel wrt bondage photosets:
Secure bondage – Hywel’s three rules:
– 1) She must not be able to run away.
– 2) She must not be able to kick me in the nuts.
– 3) She must not be able to get out (at least not without a good ten minutes of working at the knots, anyway).BARE FEET
Did I mention bare feet? 🙂“Glamour” style photos
– large
– sharply focused
– generally well-lit
– not distorted by various “stupid amateur photographer tricks”
– taken so as to flatter the captive’s appearance
– sumptuous, glamorous, elegant backgrounds, rather than industrial-grottyModels project emotions other than pure & simple fear
– they may be angry, sultry, pleased, haughty, annoyed, wistful, but not “terrified stupid.”Variation. For all that I’m a worry-wart about RE drifting away from its current center into harsher areas of BDSM, I do like that experiments and different ideas are tried out.
Clothing
– good mix of clothed & nude sets (I’m happy with the current proportion, anyway. I’m guessing that Hywel is too, or else it wouldn’t be the current proportion.)
– use of fancy clothing & medieval costumes.
– going easy on the “high-fetish” costumesGlasses – we both like (Just don’t have a secretary wearing them…)
Pussy hair – we both generally prefer a neatly trimmed set of pubes over the shaved/bald look.
Gags – we both can take or leave them
– I like to see them when I like to see them, which turns out to be 25-35% of the time. Don’t know what Hywel’s preferred proportion is, but at least it isn’t 100%
– smaller ballgags preferred over big ones (I can’t find where Hywel mentions his preferences wrt types of gags, but I seem to remember mostly agreeing with him on that list).Hywel’s turn-offs – mine too
– Tacky, tawdry, or cheap.
– Underage play
– Excretory bodily functions and other stuff that we both find a little unsanitary or off-putting rather than erotic (e.g. smoking). (For me, drool & excretory bodily functions are a really big turn-off.)
– Fem-dom/male-sub. (Although I think I differ from Hywel in that I am willing to go with an occasional “women tickling men” scenario as an exception.)
– Emphasis on genitals and gynecology rather than the person, eyes, face, emotions.
– Rubber and latex and fetishy clothes. They are fine, and can be very striking, but at best a little goes a long way.
– Inconsistent or lazy staging & random juxtaposition of elements. I suspect this rubs Hywel the wrong way more than it does me, but I’m just as glad to see it avoided too.There are probably some additional things that I’ve missed.
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