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  • in reply to: Happy Christmas!! #15664

    gotu72
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    Snowy and Rainy Greetings from New Jersey,

    I’d also like to add my best wishes to all of the RE Community (behind the cameras, in front of the cameras and on the forum). I hope everyone has a wonderful holiday season and I wish everyone all the best for a great New Year in 2010.

    Cheers to All,

    Jeff

    in reply to: Broken downloads #15562

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    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Hi Everyone. Wow, to answer your question, yes I am still having problems with random truncations on zip file downloads. I still do not have a problem with downloads of windows media player video files. As I explained on one of my postings, it seems like I can correct, or nearly correct, the problem by turning off my firewall program and lowering the security settings on my version of Windows. I’d rather not do that. But given that if the file download truncates on me it always does it in the first second or two of the download then I know imediately if it failed or not without having to open the zip file. It really is not a problem for me. I just restart the download and it has always gone through cleanly at that point. So at the most if might cost me ten seconds of extra time to do the download. That’s not worth anyone taking a lot of time to try to track down exactly what the interaction between all the servers and all their software, my PC and all its software and the unknown number of systems and software it takes to get from the servers to my PC. If there were a number of other people that had the same issue than I might ask for some help but since it pretty much seems to be just me (yeah figures….) and it is such a minor deal for me to work around it, it is not worth spending anymore time on.

    Cheers and all the best,

    Jeff

    in reply to: January 2010 Previews #15621

    gotu72
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    Greetings from New Jersey

    Hello all and let me take just a quick second or two to wish everyone at RE and all the RE community on the forum a Happy Holiday Season and a great New Year.

    Let’s see the January Preview….. A mix of new sets and older classics. The promise of some new faces along with favorites from yesterday and today. Yet again a combination of indoor and outdoor sets, metal and rope restraints, silk and satin clothing to lingerie and nude, Chinese dresses and medieval gowns, single and multiple model sets. Gee ho hum….. how typical. Obviously just kidding…. There simply is not another site on the web that keeps the level of quality as high as RE does. Certainly tough to do and yet they manage to do it. Many thanks for that.

    There are a lot of sets that push one or more of my bondage buttons so I’ll touch on just a couple of them. The snow shot with Hayley Marie certainly starts the preview out strong which is then followed by an outdoor set with Ariel (not to mention other outdoor sets with Fi, Kobe, Sophia and Belle). Ah it will be good to get to see the set that started on the forum with Temptress Kate and Ariel wearing the same dress. It’s always nice to see Kate back in front of the camera especially as good as she has become behind it. I’ll also be looking forward to the set with Sammie. Then there is the matter of two sets with Sabrina (sigh). A nice older set with Hannah and a new one which is always wonderful to see given how rare new sets with the lady are these days.

    As always….. thanks to all involved both the ladies and gentlemen behind the camera as well as the lovely ladies in front of the camera.

    Cheers,

    Jeff

    in reply to: December previews #15611

    gotu72
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    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Just a short note of comment on the December previews. As the members have come to expect from the wonderful RE production team, this month shows a nice cross section of old and new sets, indoor and outdoor locations, metal and leather and rope restraints, clothing or the lack there of and variety in the clothing as well as a variety in the attitude of the ladies.

    The single glove strappado with Sammie B is definately something a bit different. The photo of Foxy in the black and white dress is a nice variation on a hogtie. Some nice outdoor shots with Ariel, Pling and Belle. Several lovely satin gowns. The shot with Christina in the black dress with the chain getting locked onto her collar looks like it could be very interesting. A couple of medieval gowns. A nice older set with Sabrina. And so on…..

    While I agree the previews show somewhat of a lack of stockings (I don’t have strong feelings for or against stockings) and chinese dresses (love them), keep in mind that there are about 50 photos shown in the preview. RE does at least three updates every day so for December that is a minimum of 93 updates. Who knows what’s hiding out there in the other 43 odd sets?????????

    Cheers and all the best everyone,

    Jeff

    in reply to: A Bondage Romance #15593

    gotu72
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    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Well if the trailer is an accurate indication of what is coming with the full video then that is going to be one awesome video. At least three Wow’s as Kate said. The “Reverie” piece certainly had an “RE” feel about it as well. The ability to shoot video with just the available light from street lights (wonder what would happen with just a full moon’s light and the potential storylines that brings?) will be fantastic. I found the scenes of Sammie out in the green gown, particularly those when she seemed completely at ease being outdoors in her bondage and with “her man” to be both stunning in their beauty but also very inspirational as well. I’m mean really, imangine how cool it would be to be for you and your lady to be able to take a walk in public with her in bondage (simple or elaborate) and not have anyone think it out of the ordinary enough to call the authorities. Ah sweet dreams….

    Best to everyone and Cheers,

    Jeff

    in reply to: November previews #15571

    gotu72
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    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Hi everyone.

    Hywel Posted:

    ( Hywel looks guilty…)

    We shot that set of Kate and Ariel in the same dress at the last shoot in the old studio… back in January. I haven’t edited it yet. I’ve just finished December’s sets, I’ll get it ready for January.

    Cheers, Hywel.

    Nothing to feel guilty about sir between finding and buying the new studio / house, cleaning out the old studio and moving everything, all the home improvement work (including the blood split), getting food poisoning, the planning for and taking a couple of location trips to shoot, not to mention all the daily time on the computer to maintain the site. I just remember several posts about the possibility of this set on the forum and it seemed like it could be very interesting and could spin off in a couple of different directions. It will be interesting to see which path you went down. Gives us another something to look forward to from RE in the New Year. Thanks for the update.

    Cheers and best to all,

    Jeff

    in reply to: November previews #15569

    gotu72
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    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Hi Everyone. I wanted to throw in my thoughts of the November previews. Bit late I’m afraid but have a lot going on of late. Some of the sets I’ll be looking forward to include FI’s two sets, both the hogtie (already posted) as well as the pool scene. The photo with Delta and Anya looks like it could well be an interesting set. Since I love the outdoor shots as well as the medieval gown I’ll be looking forward to the set with Pling by the water. The set with Kobe Lee in blue as a spy looks like a winner as well. Like Temptress Kate (Hey by the way Kate what ever happened to idea of the set with You and Ariel in the same blue satin dress?) I will also be waiting to see the bridal bondage set with Sammie B and Ariel as well as the set with Ariel in the animal print and Sophia as a cowgirl. And of course Sammie B as a cowgirl as well. As always it’s nice to see some old favorite sets cycle round again as with Kendra James in the green dress, Zoe staked out on the lawn and particularly Bell near the waterfall. And if you throw in a Cheongsam or a cage or two I’m generally easy to please.

    As always I’m sure I’ll be enjoying all the various sets and videos. My continuing thanks to all at RE for their continuing fine work and the way you all seem to find ways of taking things to the next level.

    Cheers and all the best,

    Jeff

    in reply to: Broken downloads #15556

    gotu72
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    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Hi Hywel,

    I’ve tried several combinations of downloads at this point and wanted to relate what I found. I downloaded the current version of the Firefox browser to my system and started by doing downloads of eight photo sets and four videos with Firefox and then with Internet Explorer (7). The results were done with my McAfee Firewall package running and were as follows:

    The Firefox downloads were done with the security settings at the default settings that come with the package. Three photoset downloads failed with Firefox each with a file size of between 200 and 250KB. Each time I restarted download without deleting the truncated files and the second attempts completed normally. The downloads with Internet Explorer were done with the Security setting at Medium – High which is where I normally run it which does not cause similar problems on other sites. Four photoset downloads failed initially with Internet Explorer, each time with a file size of between 100 and 150KB. Two of the sets were ones that failed with Firefox but the other two completed normally with Firefox. Again, second attempts done without deleting the truncated file and all four completed normally.

    I did not encounter any problems with downloading the videos with Internet Explorer but one video download terminated early (again with a file size of 200 – 250KB) with Firefox. Since I have not encountered problems with downloading video files with Internet Explorer I was a little surprised to encounter one with Firefox. This time I deleted the truncated file and started a second download of the video file and it completed normally.

    Also using Firefox I started a 100MB video download and then did four successive photo set downloads (including the three that had previously failed with Firefox) as well as two successive video downloads (including the one that had previously failed) while the first video was still downloading and none of those additional six downloads failed. Of course the individual file download transfer rates slow down with multiple downloads in progress but the overall speed seems to remain the same. Not sure if that has any bearing on the transfer failures. As previously mentioned I have not encountered a problem with a file download truncating early in Internet Explorer if there is already another download in progress.

    On another day I tried playing with the security settings as you suggested Hywel. Initially I stopped my firewall program and also turned the security setting on Internet Explorer down to medium (the lowest I can set it at). I again tried downloading eight photo set files. These were eight different sets than I had tried the other day. Two were only about 4 – 5 MB each and the others were in the 20 – 30 MB range. Nothing failed during the download process. I then tried downloading the same 8 files using Firefox without changing any of its security settings. Again nothing failed. In both cases I saw the file transfer progress box pop up and saw the progress of the transfers. The smaller files took about 12 seconds to download and the larger ones took about a minute to a minute and 15 seconds. I then turned the security on Internet Explorer back up to Medium – High and tried downloading the same eight sets again. The first one (one of the smaller files) failed with about 150KB transferred. The rest went through cleanly.

    I had specified when I shut off my firewall program to re-activate it on system reboot so I rebooted my system at this point. When it had come back up and I confirmed that the firewall package was back running and I dropped the security settings on Internet Explorer from it’s normal Medium – High to Medium and tried downloading the same 8 files I had just been working with. This produced some very interesting results. When I have the security setting on Internet Explorer at Medium – High and I download a file, if it completes normally it generally takes about 90 seconds to download a 30MB file and I see the file transfer progress box pop up but if it fails it fails in 2 – 3 seconds and I never see the progress box. With the firewall package on but the Internet Explorer security lowered to Medium all the transfers were ending in 2 – 3 seconds with no pop up box but the file sizes matched what the full download file size should be. However, on opening the zip files, on some of them I found that a random percentage of the photos had actually not transferred. It seemed that around 40 – 60% of the photos had actually downloaded in the ones that truncated early. Three of the eight seemed to not fully transfer in this initial blast. This seems to be close to what Wow was seeing. When I set everything back to my normal settings, deleted the downloaded files and tried the eight files again I still had three of the downloads terminate early (not exactly the same three) but the ones that went through to completion had the file transfer box pop up and show the progress and go back to taking about 60 – 90 seconds depending on size. The three that failed (one smaller file and two of the larger ones) all failed in 2 – 3 seconds and I never saw the pop up box for file transfer.

    As I had said previously I have not experienced problems downloading zip files from other sites so I’m not sure what causes the issue with the RE site. Clearly there is some sort of relationship between the browser security settings and the firewall package. I do not have an explanation for why there seems to be an initial transfer burst that blows out in some cases but contains something like half of the photos in the zip file and why it always seems to go through cleanly on the second transfer. Very odd to say the least. Clearly for me, with my normal way of downloading photo sets from RE I have a very clear indication that the transfer failed because it fails in 2 – 3 seconds so I just start the download a second time and it only “costs” me something like 5 seconds. No big deal in the grand scheme of things. Now in a situation like Wow’s where there does not seem to be any difference in the duration of the downloads that fail vs. the ones that complete and he has to check each individual zip file first and then download the corrupted ones a second time that wastes a lot more of his time than my situation does. His downloads may take less time than mine but it takes me less time to know if I have to download a file a second time. I also don’t know what, if any, firewall package he might be running. So far the only common element seems to be Windows XP but I don’t know what version if it he is running.

    Speaking only for myself I certainly don’t want you to spend a lot of time on this issue because it seems like something specific to the interactions of probably a very limited and specific combination of OS, browser and its security settings and firewall security software and its options. If Surfnet comes back with anything then hey great, but I’ll just live with the minor quirk. The continuing quality of the photos and videos more than make up for it in the long run.

    Hope this helps.

    Cheers,

    Jeff

    in reply to: Broken downloads #15552

    gotu72
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    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Hi Hywel. I don’t currently have a second browser on my system but I’ll see about getting Firefox over the weekend and if I can get it, I’ll try redoing some downloads with that to see if the problem exists there as well. As I said previously, if a download fails on my system it happens so fast that I just restart it and move on as it only cost me a couple of seconds. I just treat it as yet another Windows fault and another reason to go to a differnet OS, if not a different platform, for the next computer. Wonder if anyone running Linix or a Mac has run into these types of problems?

    I’ll let you know how I make out with Firefox in a couple of days.

    Cheers,

    Jeff

    in reply to: Broken downloads #15548

    gotu72
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    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Hi Everyone. Hywel, I also have experienced the truncated downloads that Wow has commentd on. It was most extensive previously but has reduced this year. I’m running Windows XP Pro, service pack three with Internet Explorer 7 as the browser and am using a DSL phone connection. Unfortunately I do not recall if I had this same problem when I was still on a dial up connection. I do, from time to time, download photo sets and videos from other sites and I very rarely have the truncation problem with those downloads.

    One thing I can add is that I do not have the problem with the video files. It only seems to happen with the zip files for the photo sets. No clue why that would make a difference but the videos are never a problem for me. With the photo sets downloads the truncation always seems to happen very early on in the download process, generally in the first or second Mb. Once I get past the intial 3 – 5% of the download it nevers seems to fail. I have not been able to detect any pattern related to size of file or the like that might be an issue and it is not consistant as to how often the downlods get truncated.

    One other quirk that I have noticed is that if I already have a download in progress from RE (video or photo set) and start a second download of a photo set, that second download never gets truncated.

    It doesn’t really bother me since if it fails, it fails almost as soon as I start the download so I just restart it and the second time it always goes through fine.

    Hope that is of some use to you.

    Cheers,

    Jeff

    in reply to: Sabrina "Shackled and Sold" Video #15539

    gotu72
    Member

    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Hi Everyone. My thanks to both Steve and Hywel for responding to my post. Hey Hywel, no problem about forgetting to pack a cheongsam for Sabrina. Obviously you have a lot of logistics to work out and keep track of during a location shoot, even one in country. I am very pleased that you and everyone involved thought enough of the idea to take a chance on doing it. Don’t concern yourself with any minor wardrobe issue. And maybe Sabrina (hopefully) might just think about coming back for another shoot some time in the fuutre. If that happens, do let me know and I’ll send in another potential scenario.

    Cheers and all the best,

    Jeff

    in reply to: October previews #15536

    gotu72
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    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Hello everyone. I hope everyone is doing well. As always it seems like RE is bringing us yet another month full of high quality photos and videos. Looks like October will be another strong mix of new and old sets, rope and metal reqtraints, indoor and outsoor settings as well as nice wardrobes and lovely ladies. Gee…. works for me!

    A couple of the ones I’ll be looking forward to will be the set with Ariel tied to the tree, Oksana in the SM Factory collar and cuffs, Lilith in red and black satin and Honey back again in that black satin and Ariel returning as the western Geisha and with the metal self bondage set. I’m really looking forward to the set with Sophia in the pool with the hair flip, the set with Paige in chains on the floor in front of Ariel looks very interesting and then there is that stunning photo of Ariel in the metal yoke in the dark with the light behind her.

    Another great month so thanks to one and all in front of and behind the cameras.

    Cheers,

    Jeff

    in reply to: Handcuffs for small wrists? #15530

    gotu72
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    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Hi cl.reply. To try to answer your question about small size handcuffs, I would expect that at least some of the better known handcuff makers probably have special cuffs for undersize or oversize wrists. It’s something police do have to deal with from time to time. Smith & Wesson used to make a cuff that opened wider and closed smaller than their standard cuffs. If memory serves it was called the Model 1. I have not looked to see if they still make it or what the minimum cuff size might be. It might or might not suit your needs depending on wrist size. You might try a website like Handcuff Warehouse (http://www.handcuffwarehouse.com) and see what they have. They carry a large number of cuffs from many different makers so they may have something that would fit your requirements. I have purchsed several items through them and they have a rapid response rate and so far I have not had any problems with an order.
    Beyond the normal cuff makers then you have a couple of choices but all will be kind of expensive as they are mostly custom made restraints. RE uses the SM Factory collar and cuffs a lot on the site and the maker has a good reputation (their site is http://www.sm-factory.de). All the work is sized to order. Another well known firm is Rigid Cuff. The owner makes a number of heavy weight metal restraints in a range of sizes but will do custom sizes as well (the site is http://www.cuff24.com). A newer firm, to my knowledge anyway, is one called Dungeon Delights (http://www.dungeondelights.com). They also do custom size metal shackles. I am not that familiar with them so I can not really comment on their reputation but it seems to be a good one from what little I have seen.
    Another possible alternative is a couple of the chastity belt makers. Most also seem to sell locking collars, wrist and ankle cuffs and the cuffs can be padlocked together. They all seem to offer much the same product. A steel band cuff that is lined with either neoprine rubber or with silicone, locks on with a small attached padlock and generally comes with an “O” or “D” ring for connection purposes. Again these will be more expensive than regular handcuffs. Three of the better known names for these firms are Tollyboy, Neosteel and My-Steel.
    Hope that is of some use to you.

    Cheers,

    Jeff

    in reply to: Photoshoot tutorial 1/11/2008 Samples #14925

    gotu72
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    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Hi Everyone. I just put up a post commenting on the site previews for September 2009. One of the sets that I mentioned that I would be looking for in particular was the set with Sammie B in the blue satin dress. That triggered a memory from an early forum thread, which turned out to be this one.
    So I would like to pose a question to Hywel, Ariel and Temptress Kate. What ever happened to the notion on this thread of Ariel and Kate wearing the same dress and Ariel’s ensuing bondage at Kate’s hands (and perhaps Kate getting tied to Ariel in the end as well)? Any chance that this theme might make it into reality some day? Just wondering……
    Best to everyone as always.

    Cheers,

    Jeff

    in reply to: September Previews #15521

    gotu72
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    Greetings from New Jersey,

    A bit late in expressing my thoughts on the September previews but I have had an unusual number of hassles to deal with lately. Of course seeing what Hywel, the rest of the talented production people and the lovely ladies out front of the camera have in store for us certainly tends to put one in a better mood. At least it certainly works that way on my mood. Looks like another great month ahead. A number of new sets, new locations, the return of some favorite sets and some favorite ladies, some favorite restraints, a nice selection of outdoor shots and the list goes on. A couple of items that already have come out are the shot of Fi in the fiddle restraint and the green gown along with Steve’s great music video (which of course has also wetted the appetite for some of the scenes in the video possibly coming out as full sets in future months). Without highlighting an excessive numbers of images, some of the others I’ll be waiting on seeing are the two sets with Ariel and Paige bound together, the set with Sammie B in the blue satin dress and blue harness gag (great touch) and Ariel in the “Slave Trail Across Africa” set (loved the lighting on the preview photo). Not to mention personal favorites of shots with cheongsams, medieval attire or cages.
    My thanks, as always, to all involved both behind the camera and the PC keyboard, and particularly to the ladies for your beauty and for bringing our fantasies to life.

    Cheers,

    Jeff

    in reply to: How do you like your Dommes? #15495

    gotu72
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    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Hi Ariel and everyone else. First, albeit a bit late, let me add my best wishes for getting over your injury and surgery as soon as possible. Very sorry to hear you had the mishap and that it was serious enough to require surgery which is never fun.

    As far as what kind of Dom I prefer I would have to go with first the “Temporary Dom” and then the “Sensual Facilitator Domme.” I don’t have a problem with seeing a Dom on camera (stills or video) but I do prefer to have a cross section of sets/videos that show both the dom and sub as well as just the sub. I also have no issues with seeing either a male or a female dom on camera. I prefer variety (which RE is very good about).

    I have little use for the “Angry Shouty Domme” and I agree with what several others have said in that if you are not in control of yourself then you can not be in control of someone else. This obviously could also cause significant problems if the dom has to somewhat loose control to get into a character and then have to do the rigging for the scenario. In that case the dom may well not be paying proper attention to the safety of the sub.

    How well the “Situational Domme” comes off depends a lot on the strength of the story line. There are cases where I have much enjoyed such a set and also times where it fall completely flat. Of course if the bondage the “Situational Domme” rigs is garbage that will not help the set/video as well. I do not seem to recall the “Glady’s Blog” set with Kate that you mentioned Ariel so I can’t comment on how well it came off. If that is an RE set then who was in it besides Kate and when was it posted?

    I know I am probably in the minority as far as RE members go but I really do not care for the “Sexual Sadist Domme” style of set or video. Cruelty is just not my thing. I prefer the more lighthearted and sexual. I just don’t find slapping, spanking, flogging, etc. a partner to be sexy but I will look at it from time to time. I have enjoyed some of Chant’s dom sets/videos, particularly the behind the scenes ones or the how to tie ones. Ones like the “Stocks in a Box” don’t bother me too much but ones like “the Interview from Hell” with you and Bianca or the “You’re in the Army Now” set with Jade go too far for my tastes. But RE is a community so you take a bit of what you might not like and you get a bit of what you do like. That works.

    I definitely like the “Sensual Facilitator Domme” as done in “Swords and Sandals” or with you and Sophia in “Sophia’s Day Off”. Some of my favorite sets over the years (both at RE and from other sites) have used the general scenario of each lady taking her turn as both dom and sub. Since, by your own description Ariel, you are sub by nature then this form of dom should be easier for you to get into character for with regards to RE work than Chanta’s much more aggressive style. I would think it would come across more believable on camera.

    I also like the “Temporary Domme” style and perhaps just slightly more than the “Sensual Facilitator Domme.” I think the reason for that is that the dom in these situations may well wind up as a sub before the plot is over. Doesn’t always happen, and great when it does, but the possibility is there dangling in front of us. The recent harem video you mentioned is a good example of this. The “Girl Flesh Ranch” video also had the same potential outcome as well. With the harem set either Elle and Sammie might get free and take some revenge or the Sultan might enter and be displeased at the senior slave girl taking matters into her own hands. You never know if it will happen, and hopefully it will from time to time, but it helps expand the fantasy.

    As far as you taking on the role of the dom in future sets and videos I don’t have a problem with it in concept. True we have primarily seen you on the site in the role of a sub but there have been some dom roles that have been done well. This is fantasy after all so it is not hard for me to envision someone being a sub in one set and then being a dom in the next. Besides, that’s called being a “Switch” and I certainly don’t have an issue with that. But the roles you take on have to have a certain believability to them to make it work. If you are uncertain about what you are doing in a “Sexual Sadist Domme” role then that will come across on camera, particularly on video and could easily wreck the scenario you are trying for. Of course that doesn’t apply to something like the “Girl Flesh Ranch” which I would call pure “Farce” and which kind of throws believability overboard so most any dom style works.

    Will look forward to seeing how you progress with the dom role and, of course, will still seriously enjoy you in the restraints as well. Get well soon.

    Cheers,

    Jeff

    in reply to: longest bondage session? #15305

    gotu72
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    Greetings from New Jersey,

    How long a person can be in a given bondage position depends on a combination of a number of factors. The individual restraint used, how it is applied, how tight it is applied, the position involved (if there is one) and the person that will be in the bondage. Every person is different and every person will differ from day to day. It depends on their body make up as well as things like cuts, bruises, illnesses, allergies, muscle strains and so forth. I had the opportunity to play a couple of times with a lady who could normally have her elbow together behind her back or do a reverse prayer position for 45 minutes to an hour. She was that limber in part from being a personal trainer. But there were some times where she could only hold such a position for a few minutes or not at all because she might have a slight strain from over doing things during a workout with a client. Some people’s bodies just will not get into certain positions and forcing it will result in a very short session.
    The type of restraint used also has a large part to play in how long someone can be in bondage, particular if we are talking about a fixed position. As Kate and Ariel have said the “old fashion” metal restraints are generally more comfortable than modern thin cuffs. The wider the cuff the more the weight and the contact with the skin is spread over a wider surface area and so the pressure on any one point is reduced. The same thing applies to rope. You can tie a person’s wrists behind their back with a short piece of fishing line. They may or may not be able to escape the tie but the thin line will cause a lot of damage to their skin as they struggle against the bondage. That’s not my idea of bondage and I have no interest in causing my partner discomfort. Distributing the load of rope bondage is partly why you see quality bondage producers (and of course RE is a very high quality producer) use a decent diameter of line and use a number of turns at any tie point. That is one factor that helps the model be able to stay in that tie long enough for the photos or video the producer is trying to get. Of course you can overdo things with the rope diameter also. Bondage with one or two inch diameter rope is generally nor that practical either as the line will not flex enough for a good tie.
    The material of the restraint and the quality or the workmanship also plays a part. Rope bondage with hemp rope or some synthetics can be very unpleasant because of the roughness of the material while other synthetics (like nylon but be careful of the way it stretches) are ore comfortable material against one’s skin. The same thing applies to leather cuffs. RE has a number of lined leather cuffs and collars that have locking buckles. These would be pretty comfortable against the skin and allow a lady to wear them for a longer period of time then cheaper or lower quality cuffs. The lower quality or cheaper ones might have a rough inner surface and/or might not have the edges rounded over or beveled so the edges can dig into the skin as the lady struggles.
    How the bondage is applied also plays a big part in the duration of a bondage session. If the bondage is poorly applied then it can become painful, cause a loss of circulation or other issues than will shorten the session at best and hurt the model at worst. It’s easy to over tighten handcuffs and it is critical that if the handcuffs are the adjustable type that they have a lock out feature (ideally not the cheap pivoting lever) to prevent the cuffs from tightening further once the lock out is tripped. It’s the same for rope bondage. If the tie is done poorly it can cause pain at pressure points on the body or easily cut the circulation at any number of body points.
    How tight the bondage is applied also is a factor in the length of time a person can spend in bondage. I already discussed what can happen if you over tighten handcuffs and the same applies to rope bondage as well. Phithinker02 mentioned that a spread eagle position should be able to be held for a long time. Well yes and no. If the bondage is applied poorly or too tightly that is one limiting factor but it also depends on how tight the limbs are drawn. As a general rule the tighter your draw a person’s limbs to the corners of the bed the shorter the time they will be able to hold the position because the tighter the limbs are drawn the faster they will cramp from the strain. If the limbs have a fair amount of slack to be able to move around (obviously without being able to escape) then the one on bondage will be able to stay in that position for a much longer period of time. They might even be able to sleep through the night like that but only if they normally sleep on their back or tummy. If they normally sleep on their side they will find the position too much of a strain for an overnight session.
    Gags behave much the same way but you also have the added problem of the person wearing one choking which clearly is to be avoided. I love the look of a lady wearing a ball gag but how long a lady can wear one depends greatly on the flexibility of her jaw as well as the size of the ball. The larger the ball the more it will stretch the jaw muscles and the quicker the jaw will cramp. So generally a lady will be able to wear a smaller ball gag longer than a large diameter one. I only know a one gag that could be safe overnight and that is a tape gag with no mouth packing. The mouth packing, or any type of gag that places anything in the mouth, will cause more saliva to be generated. I’m not advocating gagging someone overnight because you should always closely monitor anyone wearing a gag. Further, if the lady applies some extra makeup around her mouth before the tape is applied she can easily dislodge the tape at least partly, if needed, by forcing air out through the mouth. The extra makeup combined with the sweat that will build up under the tape will lessen the grip enough to allow her to “blow” the tape off.
    Now one of my favorite restraints is a straitjacket (preferably in leather). Assuming the jacket has a strap or two running from front to back between the legs (to prevent the jacket from being drawn up over the head) and loops at the front and sides of the torso that the arms go through (to prevent the arms from being drawn over the head) and the straps are drawn to a reasonable tightness then most people are not going to be able to get out of the straitjacket. Yet if the straps are not overly tightened one can stay in a jacket for a number of hours and sleep in one. But if the arm straps in particular are tightened too much then the arms will cramp in a fairly short period of time. Another favorite restraint is a leather sleep sack. These often have several sets of “D” rings on them. Two sets normally go down the front so a rope can be laced through them to tighten the bag around the person in it. There are also often a set down each side of the bag to allow the bag and the person inside to be secured to whatever they are lying on. If the side or front lacing is made too tight then the person will probably have to come out of the sack earlier than they would if there is a decent amount of slack.
    It’s easy to want to place someone in bondage so they can’t move at all but it is kind of a reverse trap. How long someone can be in a particular bondage is often inversely proportional to how tight you make that bondage.
    So various things contribute to how long any individual can stay in bondage. Personally I’ve been involved with some bondages, both on the giving end as well as the receiving end (I’m a switch) using leather straitjackets and also some using five point restraints that have gone on for up to 18 hours. Some of these have involved sleeping in the restraint over night. Different forms of gags would be used for up to an hour or so at different times during such sessions. Obviously you have to keep a close eye on the partner in restraint and the lady and I certainly did. Of course the person in the restraints for these play sessions had a lot of mobility and that played a big part in the length of the sessions. They were a great way to spend a winter’s Sunday.

    Cheers,

    Jeff

    in reply to: Hogties? Why? #15500

    gotu72
    Member

    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Hello everyone. The hogtie is certainly one of my favorite positions for bondage. At times it can be my favorite one but I also really like a spread eagle on a bed (obvious for its love making possibilities) and I also like seeing a model tethered to something and particularly am a fan of cage scenarios. I would guess with the latter two it is a form of control thing…. knowing that the lady is not going anywhere anytime soon. My speculation on the general bondage population’s reason for liking the position so much may well be a combination of both a control thing since done properly a hogtie (either classic hands behind the back and tightly linked to the angles or the cross ankle variation) is very difficult to escape from and often the lady can be in the position for a reasonably long time, but is also one of the most helpless positions one can be placed in without being tied to an object. Often the subject can do little else other than roll from lying on her tummy to lying on her wrists and ankles and back again. Obviously the helpless factor is really part of the control element but I think many people often tend to separate that out for its own element as they simply enjoy seeing their partner (real life or in fantasy images) so helpless. Of course as the lady is rolling around trying to escape you get to enjoy her form from many different angles which certainly is not a bad thing. I know that the US bondage publishing firm Harmony Communications did a survey of positions and reasons for bondage in their lead magazine back sometime in the 1990’s and the hogtie was the favorite then as well. If I recall correctly, many of the male respondents said they enjoyed both playing the villain who puts the lady in bondage as well as playing the “white knight” who rescues her and gets her “reward” for having rescued her. So while the hogtie might not allow for easy sexual activity itself, with the lady’s “rescue” her reward to her rescuer becomes the ends to justify the means of her helpless. I think it may well be the sum of the experience and just the position itself. My two cents.

    Cheers,

    Jeff

    in reply to: Spain Samples! #15469

    gotu72
    Member

    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Hi everyone. The wonderful images just seem to keep on coming. Once more some stunning shoots so all sorts of thanks and praise to all involved on both sides of the camera. I’ll be looking forward to all the sets of course but I particularly liked the set with Ariel, Fi and Sophia by the pool; the late sunset shots with Sophia, the shot with Sophia hair in the pool is a classic; the shot of Ariel by the pool with the wet clothing; and the two tone ropework on Sophia plus the fact that I enjoy a scenario where the model can see herself in her bondage (the mirror in this case).

    Hope all is well with everyone.

    Cheers,

    Jeff

    in reply to: Things are changing #15461

    gotu72
    Member

    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Bittersweet news but perfectly understandable. I’d be foolish to try to improve on Kate’s words so let me just say I echo them as well. Congradulations, good luck and all the best to you and your bride to be. Hope you can pop in once and a while to say “Hi”.

    Cheers,

    Jeff

    in reply to: August Previews #15451

    gotu72
    Member

    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Hi everyone. Once again it looks like the RE team has put together a body of work that should include something to please pretty much everyone’s tastes somewhere through the month. In my case probably most of the way through the month. Lots of satin and steel, some outdoor shots, at least one cage, a couple of cheongsams, some favorite restraints, some old favorite sets along with some wonderful looking new sets. and of course a lot of lovely and favorite models. Thanks to all involved for another wonderful set of images both in front and behind the camera. Your work is certainly appreciated.

    Cheers,

    Jeff

    in reply to: Pling… inspiring random antispam devices! #15448

    gotu72
    Member

    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Very cool Kate.

    Cheers,

    Jeff

    in reply to: chastity belts #15422

    gotu72
    Member

    Greetings from New Jersey,

    A locked chastity belt would look very nice and go together with the SM Factory collars and cuffs very well. It would kind of finish off the ensemble as it were particularly if the various components were shown being locked on rahter than just already locked in place. As great as it would look the belts are not cheap, often starting around 650 euros or so and going up from there depending on options and many of the vendors take a number of weeks to produce each belt (if you believe some of the on-line forums and vendor websites). Also, they are not really a generic bondage item like many of the collars and cuffs can be. To fit right and there by look good on the model, they often require some rather, shall we say, “personal” measurements to be taken. Another problem that can arise is that some of the vendors line their belts with rubber and some line them with silicone. Some people have allergies to rubber so that could be an issue with some models.
    I’d love to see some belts used on the site but I am not in a position to speak to if the bank account can afford the cost and the potential limited number of models who could use wear any specific belt without it looking sloppy on them or the fit being far enough off to causing them discomfort while wearing the belt. Certainly an interesting idea however…….

    Cheers,

    Jeff

    in reply to: We’re back! #15438

    gotu72
    Member

    Greetings from New Jersey – Again,

    I was just on my out to celebrate July 4th (sorry to friends across the Atlantic) but decided to take a quick look to see if more of the site trip photos might have been posted yet. Not a whole lot to say other than … oh… wow … amazing … stunning …… uh did I mention WOW!? It’s hard to say what looks like the best or what one might want to see first but if I had to pick a pair or so it would be the triple shot of Sabrina, Ariel and Paige, the initial dusk shot of Ariel and that night shot of Ariel in the steel yoke with the back lighting. A most impressive photo. Clearly the RE crew has managed to out do itself yet again. Compliments to all the ladies and gentlemen behind the cameras and, or course, to all the lovely ladies in front of the cameras bringing life to our fantasies. Your collective work is very much appreciated.

    Best tyo your all and thanks,

    Cheers

    Jeff

    in reply to: We’re back! #15432

    gotu72
    Member

    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Glad to hear the trip went well, despite the heat issues. The sample phot of Ariel is a stunning piece of work. I’ll certainly be looking forward to that full set as well as the other previews to come. I’m sure we’ll all appreciate everyone’s efforts.

    Cheers,

    Jeff

    in reply to: July Previews #15427

    gotu72
    Member

    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Hi All. Well it looks like another great month is in store for the RE membership. Once again a nice mix of new sets together with some old favorites. A couple of my own personal favorite scenarios are covered with some outdoor shots as well a cage set. As always there is a good cross section of dungeon style scenes along with more every day settings. The video sample was not to my tastes but you can’t please every one every time. That’s part of being the community which RE has become.

    As always, a big Thank You to Hywel, to all very the talented people behind the scenes and to all the lovely and talented ladies in front of the camera. I know I’ll be looking forward to seeing the example shots from the next big location shoot as well. Hope all goes well for you.

    Cheers,

    Jeff

    in reply to: "Full Sized" sets #15408

    gotu72
    Member

    Greetings from New Jersey,

    I would have to say that I enjoy the full size sets, from time to time. The individual images do not always fit on my monitor screen due both its size and the settings I use so I don’t have to use the reading glasses to read text on the screen (lame as that might be). Therefore, personally, they make a nice occasional extra treat. Obviously with a larger monitor I would certainly be interested in more of the full size sets.

    Cheers,

    Jeff

    in reply to: Emily Addison #15403

    gotu72
    Member

    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Emily is an American model. I think she is based somewhere in the south eastern portion of the country based on what one of her websites is called. I have no idea if she does fetish modeling outside the USA or not or what her rates might be. Could be a bit pricy to book if Hywel has to include airfare but if she comes over on her own for other reasons, why not?

    Cheers,

    Jeff

    in reply to: Best Games. #15376

    gotu72
    Member

    Greetings From New Jersey,

    HI Merlin. I feel much the same way about spammers. Utterly useless twits. I particularly like the “rusty” idea. Nice touch. Go for it.

    Cheers,

    Jeff

    in reply to: Virus warning #15383

    gotu72
    Member

    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Hi Kate. This may or may not be related to the problem RCJM38 has been running into but figured I’d pass it along. I have the McAfee anti virus and firewall package on my PC and today when I first tried to log into the forum today I got a message from the McAfee package that it had flagged a script trying to change the Windows Registry on my system. That has never happened previously from RE. Also I’ve received “error 404 page not found” messages twice today when first trying to open thread pages on the forum. Both times I just hit the back buttom and then clicked on the page again and things were fine but also have not run into that scenario before either. Not sure if there actually is a problem or just my system actting a bit crazy but better to be proactive and let someone know. If I run into any other quirks I’ll let you and Hywel know.

    Cheers,

    Jeff

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