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  • in reply to: August Previews #16068

    gotu72
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    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Hello and I hope everyone is doing well. Looks like one more time the RE team, both behind and in front of the camera, has put together a number of wonderful images (old and new) for us to explore. Many thanks to all who helped with August’s offerings which contain the customary and classic RE wide variety of lovely ladies, settings and props. To follow on to Lurker’s comment, I also would love to see some new medieval gown and Cheongsamsets particularly video but that’s just me. Anyway there several new sets that I’ll be looking forward to as well as the return of some old favorites.

    I must say that I felt a little discomfort with regards to the “abigailprettybedtie11” image. Yes I know the model is in no danger and the crew is right off camera if there were a problem but the attachment point of the rope to her collar is clearly on the back side of her neck and that coupled with the look on her face just rubs me the worng way. Sorry. Anyway, you take the good with the bad and I know it will not spoil the rest of the month.

    Good luck on the location shoots and we’ll all be looking forward to those teaser example shots from hot off the camera.

    Cheers,

    Jeff

    in reply to: July previews #16049

    gotu72
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    Greetings from New Jersey,

    I hope everyone is doing well. Just a quick comment on the RE offerings for July 2010. As always the ladies and gentlemen of RE have come up with a wide assortment of images to fire many imaginations. A nice selection and cross section of attire, restraints, gags, locations and scenarios that should provide a little something (if not a lot of something) for most any tastes. Thanks as always and well done.

    All the best and cheers,

    Jeff


    gotu72
    Member

    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Hope everyone is doing well. I’ve had a chance to read through this RE’s second decade thread a couple of times now as well as the related one on “Website videos… what plots are permissible to film?” and the two threads cover a lot of ground. Hywel and all the others behind and in front of the RE cameras have created, at least in my eyes, a wonderful and very high class and high quality bondage community and I would have no problem if it were to continue on just doing what they have been doing. However, as high class and quality as it is, continuously doing the same thing will get routine after some period of time, members might get a little bored and the site might get a little stale. On the other hand if everyone keeps trying to continuously push the boundaries within the current format of one new photo set or video for a daily update then one could see a time when production team members either hit a creative road block or simply hit a burn out period. It happens. So perhaps the coming ten year anniversary is the perfect point to reflect, look at various possibilities and perhaps change things up a bit. Obviously still going down the road of tried and true “classic RE bondage” a good part of the time but also reaching out and experimenting with going in some other directions as part of the mix. Yeah there will no doubt be some who don’t want to see any changes and/or don’t want things to go in some specific direction but I suspect every long running creative entity (TV show, website, rock band) runs into the same problem. The site, or whatever, hits on a good formula that people like and then either things get stale or the show, band, etc. tries to go in a slightly different direction. Most fans will give the new material a chance, a small percentage never will. Little you will be able to do about it.

    I think many of the ideas Hywel mentioned certainly make sense a lot of sense. By limiting the new sets/videos to say three days a week it allows the various riggers and photographers to take their time a bit more with both the original production as well as the editing without the pressure of having to make that daily deadline. Of course there will be the odd set or video that will not work for most of the membership and then you will get the obvious comments of “I waited “X” days for an update and you give us this garbage?” It’s going to happen but there is little you can do about it. Plus with ten years of back work that is a lot of material to fill remaining days during the week and still maintain some sort of daily update.

    Having Ariel contribute more to the production side of RE also clearly makes sense. One it brings another female prospective into the mix along with Temptress Kate’s so that will put a different spin on some of the material. Also clearly Ariel has a number of good ideas as we have already seen with much of the RE Nights material. Now granted some of that was/is a little harder than where my general interests lie but everything in moderation as the saying goes. Also by having another potential photographer / rigger available it might allow for some more on camera tying in some of the sets or videos which is always hard to show if it is just one model and one person behind the camera. Of course not everyone likes the on camera tying but I happen to. Allowing Ariel more time to post on the forum to both share her thoughts as well as solicit input from the members also make good sense. Hopefully some of the other models will routinely contribute their thoughts and feelings about some of their shoots and sets as well. All the ideas should provide the team with a lot of useful information to keep moving forward.

    I find the idea of the on-line shows to be very promising. Obviously you could get some comments and requests that are far outside the bounds of good taste as well as the limits of what RE is about and controlling all that could be a bit of a pain but the results could and should be very interesting. The on-line tutorials would also be a nice feature as well. Probably a bit hard to do for photographic or video tutorials but would work for bondage and rigging. It would also be nice if there were going to be a way to download and save the on-line shows and tutorials so members could watch them again at their leisure. The “Clips4Sale” site might be the possible path for those types of downloads, depending on the price.

    I’ve always liked the Ariel’s Video Diaries and particularly the ones with an interview of a model or just having a camera rolling during the shooting of a set or video. “Fly on the Wall” point of view so to speak. I would certainly enjoy more of that in the future. As somewhat of an adjunct to this, Hywel talked about toping and tailing in reference to the thread about what was permissible for RE to shoot on video. Personally I would enjoy an interview section with the model from time to time after a video. Certainly doesn’t have to go with every video but it would be nice to hear what the lady was thinking about before, during and after a photo set or video from time to time. Such a top and tail format would not always have to be linked with a harder edge scenario either. I’d enjoy hearing what the lady was thinking about, what she enjoyed, what she didn’t enjoy and so forth if this was her first bondage modeling work, first outdoor work with the possibility of being discovered or first location work, first suspension and other similar ideas. If you don’t want to put the tail on the videos themselves you could always group a couple of tails together as a video update with just a short trailer of what update the interview was from. I particularly like to know what a lady is thinking when she sees herself in bondage either during the bondage or looking at the final photo set or video. There’s a scene in a bondage video I have where one lady is lacing another lady into a black full coverage corset and making some comments about how nice a tight corset looks. The model being laced into the corset is sitting on the edge of a bed and looking at herself in a full length mirror. Besides the black corset she is wearing black stockings and heels (sorry Hywel). Her wrists are tied to her knees, her ankles are tied with the shoes tied on as well and she is wearing a tight ball gag. Part of me wants to believe she is enjoying her mistress’s attention and the bondage and is into the character of the video and I like that thought. But I also know it’s acting and I can also easily see the bound lady thinking to herself as she looks in the mirror that she needs to pick up the dry cleaning before 5:00 today and she needs to get to the post office later as well and that thought makes me laugh.

    I think Kate makes a very good point on potential changes in the way many people access the web over the coming years. For myself, I suspect I will always trail the pack and that doesn’t really bother me too much, so long as I don’t get shut out by the changes in technology. I don’t have a big flat screen TV or HD TV at home yet and I don’t really know how soon I might go to that. Frankly the price the satellite TV service adds to the monthly bill for HD service will probably keep me from going to HD TV for at least another year or two, unless the current TV rolls over and dies then who knows. Currently my PC uses a 19” diagonal flat panel monitor and there is no link to my TV for the computer. Not sure I really would want such a connection and the computer is upstairs from the main TV anyway, but such connections seems a growing trend as well as HD. While I do expect to replace the computer in a couple of months the current likely replacement is, if I remember correctly, a 21 inch diagonal flat screen and I don’t see myself going to a large flat screen for the computer anywhere soon down the line. I don’t own a lap top and not sure if I would really want one. I have a cell (sorry mobile) phone but I need to use my reading glasses to read the caller ID or text messages and I hate texting, twitter, face book, my space and similar related excuses not to deal with others directly. Granted the screen size on an iPhone or Blackberry is at least twice the size of the screen on the phone that I have now but I have a hard time envisioning myself getting the bulk of my TV and my RE over a smart phone and I don’t see a need for me to go the iPad route at the moment either. The thought of having to get prescription reading 3D glasses to watch TV on my phone doesn’t hold much appeal for me at the moment. Yes I have seen the advancements in clarity and sharpness of the pictures and particularly the videos as the resolution rates RE has used has changed over the years and that’s certainly a good thing. Not sure what Blu-Ray quality will do for me given my current or projected computer equipment or if it would look worse than current formats for those of us without the latest and greatest. Backwards compatibility is always tricky and at some point RE will have to cut the cord on older formats and technology to keep pace with where the majority of viewers are currently. I don’t have a problem with that as you can not be all things to all people either in content or transmission method.

    As far as the thread of what kinds of videos are permissible to shoot for RE ….. I have enjoyed most of the videos that RE has presented over the years. It would be pretty much impossible for any site to have every photo and video be like by any one viewer. In general I am not much of a fan of some of the harder edged scenes. As I’ve mentioned on other forum posts that while I understand that many people like the scenes of floggings, canings, hot wax, nipple clamps and such and I understand that many women can find them enjoyable under the right circumstances…. they are just not my hot button bondage scenarios. I tend to stick to more of the bondage side of things and am not so much a fan of the discipline or SM side of things. Yes I get that people are into the harder stuff, male and female, and that’s fine so long as no one is forced but it’s not really why I’m a member of this site. But you can’t have everything you want every time so I’m fine with the harder stuff from time to time.

    I understand what Hywel is talking about in terms of the photo sets containing a lot of “fantasy neutral” aspects to them and how the viewer is free to insert their own story as the reason behind the set. I generally do tend to read the story line trailers for the sets and videos and some become my back ground story when I look at the set or video and in others I insert my own. I’m not sure the videos need to be fantasy neutral or at least a percentage of them doesn’t have to be. To be sure it is nice to see a lovely woman in good bondage (level of clothing optional) struggling against her restraints. Sometimes that is more than enough and a 5 minute video of her moving within the limits of her restraints, perhaps trying to escape them and “mmpphhing” into a gag if present is fine. But for myself there are several other scenarios that I equally like seeing. I’m happy to view that same 5 minutes of struggling and “mmpphhing” seeing and knowing from a proceeding brief scene that she got put into this bondage consensually by her lover (male or female) which results in knowing, or at least suspecting, what will follow later without having to see it. The same basic 5 minutes of struggling would also work with a brief proceeding scene of the lady putting herself in restraints for her lover to find her. Again I have a pretty good idea of what will follow after we see the lover discover her but I don’t really need to see it. And I can also appreciate the aspect of a force scene of the type where the damsel in distress falls in love with her capture and that works for me also but it is harder to show the transition from forced captive to participating lover in a 5 minute video. What appears to be an outright abuse or rape scenario (ala the basic Kink.com set or video) is generally a turn off to me and I don’t have much interest in seeing hard core penetration. Just really doesn’t do anything for me. Personally I do enjoy a “girl/girl” video where the top does a little groping of the bottom and it perhaps ends with a “forced” orgasm via a vibrator. RE has done a little of this from time to time but I would not mind seeing more. Of course you have to have models that are comfortable with that scenario to pull it off correctly. One other type of bondage video that really turns me off are ones where you see the model or models “struggling to escape” their bondage and it’s a single turn of rope with a big knot that she / they can easily reach and untie and yet in the 5 – 7 minutes she / they are tied she / they seem to manage to do everything but the most obvious thing of untying the knot even though they can clearly reach it. RE’s bondage has NEVER been that sloppy but where I’m going more with this comment is that I also enjoy seeing a lady working to escape her bondage as a form of game she and her lover are playing (or trying to escape the evil captor). When I’m playing that form of bondage game hopefully the lady loses more than wins but I can appreciate and even cheer for her to escape from time to time. Obviously this applies more to rope bondage than hard steel cuffs, yokes and cages.

    Strictly speaking for myself, there are a couple of things I’d love to see RE bring into the mix in terms of attire, restraints and general scenarios. We’ve seen some latex, spandex and leather or leather like attire from time to time but I don’t think we have seen much of it in more recent sets. I’d enjoy seeing some skirts or pants of any of those materials work their way into a few sets from time to time as they’d go good with the silk and satin blouses. I’d also love to see some more catsuits but I realize they can get pricy and you have to think about how many of the models they might fit. I’d also love to see some ankle length hobble skirts from time to time as they make an easy leg restraint and something that can easily go out in public. Personally I always like the use of Cheongsams and Medieval attire so more of both would always work for me. In terms of restraints I’d love to see a metal chastity belt or belts used as was suggested on the forum as well as a leather straitjacket or sleep sack (both personal favorites) or perhaps some of the restraints from RigidCuff. However, here again they are not cheap and RE would need to work out how cost effective they would be in terms of the number of models that they would fit. Also seeing some more of the favorite RE restraints in more of the videos would be nice like the metal yokes, the globe cuffs, the cage, Ariel’s five point chain restraint (don’t think the globe cuffs or Ariel in her five point has made a video yet). I’ve always been a big fan of the outdoor work the RE has done. Part of that is just the wonderful backdrops you can get as well as the natural lighting. But there is also the aspect of being seen and what would happen. We saw a little of that in the trip to Sweden and it might or might not have happened during part three of the “Bondage Romance” videos with Sammie B. I’ve seen several sites based in Germany and the Netherlands that have a fair amount of public bondage. Models walking along city streets, in parks and so forth collared, wearing handcuffs, even ball gagged passing by the general public. For the most part no one seems to care, or at least they don’t show it on most of the videos. It would be nice if RE could take things that public but obviously the cultures are different (certainly would be hard pressed to do that here in the US except on certain days in certain cities) but would be nice none the less. I also enjoy scenarios of the lady being in some sort of bondage as part of her day to day life. She comes home from work and puts herself in a collar and cuffs for the evening or while doing chores around her home. She’s working from home but in bondage. She and her lover have a bet that she looses and has to spend a day or a weekend in bondage. She wants to try to set a personal record of being in a straightjacket for “X” hours or strapped down to the bed with hospital restraints for a day and we look in on her from time to time. I’ve also liked a number of the videos that a couple of RE models have routinely done for another UK based site where generally one lady is tying up the other and it’s all perfectly normal and the conversation between the two covers every day subjects as well as what the ladies like about their bondages. Somewhat a case of throwing the ladies the restraints and seeing what they come up with. And a bit of tickling would not be bad either though I know some models absolutely hate it. Of course I understand that some of those topics might not be to everyone’s tastes but they are to part of mine.

    As far as how to handle doing some of the “harder” aspect videos in the future and how both the models/crew as well as the viewer might respond I think you might have been on the right track previously with the RE Nights video. We kind of knew they were a bit different from the normal RE videos just by the intro. As far as dealing with the crew you could have a meeting / email session with them to explain what you are looking to do, how they would feel about it, would they want to be a part of it and get their inputs on dealing with the models and the viewers. I’m not sure what the best way to reach the majority of the models might be. It would probably be difficult to have a mass meeting or even a bunch of smaller meetings. Conference call or email would probably be the best approach to present what you might want to try to do and see how the ladies feel and how best to work things into the RE mix. Very probably some of the models will not want to be a part of that type of work but perhaps presenting it up front so that they know this is a possibility in the future would eliminate the shock factor of showing up for a shoot and freaking out. As far as getting the message across to the members and viewers that some of the videos will be containing a harder edge than the usually RE material perhaps create a subsection to the website. Currently you have the members home page that shows the daily regular and archive updates and then there are “X” number of Update and Archive pages linked to the members home page. You could add an “RE Nights” type section to this as well that would take the viewer to a text page, perhaps also with a video, explaining what the RE Nights concept is all about and that material found here goes in a somewhat different direction and tone than the regular material and might not be to everyone’s tastes but it is all being done consensually despite depicting non- consensual material. At least by having to go through that type of portal what follows should not come as a shock to anyone and they are given the chance to bail out and go back to the more comfortable RE material. Not saying it’s the best or only potential solution but it’s what initially comes to my mind.

    In any event, sorry to have rambled on so long with this post. Hywel, I think it is great that RE will be turning ten next year. You have put together a great site over the years and produced a lot of wonderful material. Very well done sir. You have also had the courage to let go of the site enough to bring in others (Kate, Steve, Merlin, Ariel and others I’m sure I’m forgetting) to help with the site and that has only added to it’s charm, class and quality. Very well done all. Re has also generated its own little community and that is great as well. I look forward to what will come over the next decade. Thanks, as always, to all on the production crew and to all the lovely ladies living out our bondage fantasies for us. Your efforts are appreciated. Would love to be able to give some more back to help but being across the pond does play a bit of a limiting factor in what I can do.

    Best to all, cheers and here’s to great things coming…..

    Jeff

    in reply to: Norway – June 2010 #16002

    gotu72
    Member

    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Hi Everyone,

    Well I trust Ariel, Katy, Steve and Hywel that you have all thawed out by this point. Pity you didn’t get the amount of “golden light” you had hoped for going so far north but looks like you all did a wonderful job under some rather harsh conditions. Obviously a big thanks to all and particularly the ladies for enduring the cold temperatures for all of us. I’m sure the finished sets will be amazing.

    I’ve always been a big fan of the outdoor shots RE does and the backgrounds on a couple of these look fantastic. Of course the bondage in the foreground isn’t bad either. And I always like the behind the scenes shots as well. The last example photo is a classic of this. Take just the left hand half of the photo and you have a classic damsel in distress shot with Ariel looking fairly deep in character on the rocks at the waters edge. But take the whole scene with Ariel on one side and Katy and Steve just hanging out on the other and the juxtaposition becomes almost a little humorous, in a good way.

    I have to agree with Kate on the shots with Katy and the turquoise elbow tie and with Ariel nude on the rock. Particularly stunning background on that shot with Ariel between the deep blue sky, the snowy rocks and the different colors of the water. I also liked the photo of Ariel in the white dress with her arms in the box tie. Given the Norway setting one could easily imagine a Norse Saga about a soon to be Valkyrie awaiting the arrival of Odin.

    Thanks as always for all the RE efforts and good luck on the other location trips over the next few months.

    All the best and Cheers,

    Jeff

    in reply to: Gilligans Island #16009

    gotu72
    Member

    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Hi Everyone,

    I kind of like Bob20’s idea of a Gilligan’s Island based set or video. The idea of the damsels in distress being carried around by a native tribe tied to a pole is a “B” movie classic and while there was some bondage in the original Gilligan’s Island series and the female characters did get tied to stakes by natives, I don’t think they were ever carried around. As far as viewing scenes from the original TV show, try YouTube. I did a real quick search on their site and there are a number of clips.
    Not sure where you would find a tropical island location to be able to justice to the storyline. Perhaps the location in Spain you have used a couple of times might fill the need for palm trees and sand.

    Cheers,

    Jeff

    in reply to: Happy 9th Birthday, Restrained Elegance #15762

    gotu72
    Member

    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Hope everyone is doing well. Thought I would chime in on 10th year anniversary planning. Personally I would love to see Hywel and Ariel do something at either BondCon or Fetish Con as part of the tenth anniversary of RE but I have no idea what either charges for booth space. Dealing with the logistics of getting any reasonable amount of bondage gear and photo equipment there (particularly for Fetish Con in US) would probably be a nightmare. Plus the expense, particularly if coming to Fetish Con, could easily be cost prohibitive. Still it would be nice…..

    As would some form of get together but this has its own set of logistic and other hassles to deal with. One day perhaps.

    I think the idea of some sort of commemorative book is a very sound idea and I certainly commend Hywel for the idea of reserving a copy for the production team. Nice touch sir. I’d certainly be interested in buying a copy. An added thing you might think about is setting aside some quantity of the books so you can have the production team autograph them along with several of the well known models (if the logistics can be worked out for them to do this). Obviously those would be sold at a higher price but I suspect there would be a reasonable percentage of the RE community that might be interested in such a premium item. I know that Harmony Communications did that with their 50th anniversary issue of “Bondage Life” magazine back in the late 1980’s or early 1990’s and the limited premium edition sold out if I remember correctly.

    Something else you might think about is commemorative DVD. Perhaps do some interviews with some of the production team (off camera as needed for privacy issues), talk with a couple of the models, perhaps a behind the scenes video of an entire photo or video shoot, perhaps film one of the tutorials in the future, perhaps include some outtakes / bloopers from some of the videos if they exist and so forth. Such a DVD could be a stand alone thing or part of the book.

    I’ll certainly be interested in seeing how things work out. RE closing in on ten years on the web. Amazing….. and no where to go but upwards and onwards. Should be a glorious ride.

    All the best and Cheers,

    Jeff

    in reply to: Today’s video starring Amy Hunter and Fi Stevens #15940

    gotu72
    Member

    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Hi All,

    A very enjoyable video with Fi and Amy. I was half expecting someone to break out laughing in the middle of it which is a good thing from time to time in a bondage video. Nice clean simple hogties and then the ladies continuing on with their work almost as if this was a routine day at the office. Cool.

    Now Hywel’s comment about an updated version of Ariel’s Slave Dance video and having an enthusiastic lady dancing in chains….. Well that certainly sound like a classic in the making. Hope the trailer will not be too far off.

    All the best and Cheers,

    Jeff

    in reply to: June previews #15965

    gotu72
    Member

    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Hi Hywel, Hi Steve,

    Thanks for the kind words. They are appreciated. Obviously the PC is running again but differently than it had before whatever problem I had showed up. I tried to do a restart after an update from my anti virus package had downloaded and everything went nuts. Originally I lost all keyboard/mouse input. I managed to get that back but then lost every other external device other than the monitor. Speakers, printer, DSL modem and even the external hard drive. Would up having to have Windows reinstalled. I’m now done with Windows. Once I get a couple of pay checks in the bank I’ll be switching to an Apple.

    As far as the knee goes it will just take a fair amount of time. Strained tendons/ligaments according to the doctor. The real frustrating thing is I can’t do much at the gym for at least another month and will miss a good portion of the summer sailing season this year. Very disappointing but so it goes.

    I’ll be looking forward to seeing the early proofs from some of this year’s RE location shoots. Hopefully you might be able to work in a slave auction or formal dinner party or world bondage games photo set/video or two into the mix as well as some behind the scenes things if the logistics allow.

    A great summer to all the RE team and the forum community.

    All the best and Cheers,

    Jeff

    in reply to: June previews #15962

    gotu72
    Member

    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Hi Everyone. Hope you all are doing well. Sorry I’ve been a bit silent on the forum recently but have had some problems with the PC which was down for about a week. I also twisted a knee about a month back (my own stupid fault) which made getting to the PC when it was operational difficult for a time. To top thing off I’ve starting a new job on Monday so I have had to spend some time getting up to speed on what I will be doing. The job may limit my future participation in some of the chats but we’ll have to see how the timing works out.

    Anyway, I wanted to put out a couple of comments on some of the offerings the RE team is putting out for us come June. It seems like it will be another enjoyable month at least from my point of view. A number of outdoor shots, a fair amount of silk/satin clothing, a good mix of rope and metal bondage, a wide selection of lovely ladies, and another nice mix of scenarios. From my point of view, what’s not to like on the whole?

    A couple of the sets / videos that I’ll certainly be waiting for include the outdoor reverse prayer with Ariel, the two sets with Fi (the outdoor set and the black PVC catsuit), The Chinese set with Missey looks promising based on her interesting expression and there are a couple of old favorite ones with Kendra as the RE Accountant (love the combination of the silk and the metal yoke on video) and Sophia in the black satin outfit. Two I will particularly be looking for is the set with Sabrina, Ariel and Paige (hey what more needs to be said there?) and the set with Sammie kneeling before her open cage and offering the viewer the chain leash to her locked steel collar (OMG!……).

    Of course that is certainly not to say I don’t appreciate the efforts of all the wonderful ladies as well as all the ladies and gentlemen behind the scenes. Well done all and many thanks once again.

    Cheers and all the best,

    Jeff

    in reply to: Happy 9th Birthday, Restrained Elegance #15753

    gotu72
    Member

    Greetings from New Jersey,

    I hope everyone is doing well.

    Doesn’t seem possible that the RE site is nine years old already. Also doesn’t seem possible that such a quality little bondage community has sprung up as part of the site. Certainly many thanks and praise go to Hywel for getting things rolling and for having the courage to let go and allow others contribute to the process behind the scenes as well such as Kate, Steve, Merlin and numerous others. Of course there are many many models to thank for sharing themselves with all the site viewers both for their efforts in front of the camera but as part of the production teams at times as well. Thank you one and all.

    Obviously any quality site can not please everyone’s tastes but RE does consistently show a pretty wide cross section of material, as has often been noted, and there is something for just about everyone’s particular set of favorites. Obviously there are just too many permutations of individual preferences for every set or video to be a winner in everyone’s eyes. Some site will stop doing certain types of things if the majority doesn’t seem to care for it. So far, and RE deserves a lot of credit for this, I have not seen evidence of them not doing any certain type of set or video because some have decried it because there will be members that do like it. It’s always nice to see a site push their own boundaries and limits and yet still sow what made them enjoyable to many in the first place. Also goes without saying that the steady improvement in the technology is nice to see as well.

    It’s also a nice chance from many sites, bondage or non-bondage, in that Hywel and the others behind the scenes of the website side of RE do try to address problems individual members have encountered. Given the sheer volume of material involved with RE and the hassles of dealing with a large site (servers, back ups, porting to updated equipment, security issues, credit card processing, uploading and scheduling content, and on and on) you have to wonder where they find the time but they always seem to try. Very refreshing.

    So, a Happy Birthday to the RE site, to all involved in bringing it to the members, to the members who have supported it through nine years and to all on the forum and chats for the community they have formed. Here’s to at least another nine years. Hope there will be a big party next year for number 10……

    Cheers and all the best to RE,

    Jeff

    in reply to: All Bondage X Factor 2010 Portfolios are now up! #15804

    gotu72
    Member

    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Hello everyone and I all everyone is doing well,

    Well a case of better late than never but I finally had a chance over the weekend to go through all the 2010 Bondage X photo sets and try to rank them. Of course with only a 1 – 5 ranking it’s a little hard rank 16 different ladies but so be it. I do want to thank all the lovely ladies for putting themselves out there like this and I certainly appreciate all their efforts as well as the RE team behind the cameras. I’m not going to go through my whole list but I will say that I gave out three 5’s, three 4’s, six 3’s, two 2’s and two 1’s. All of the sixteen sets contained something I liked but the three that I gave the highest rankings to were ones that seem to stike personal cords with more of the photos and attitude and look of the lady than the others did. In general they seemed to be the ones where the lady seemed the most “into” her situation and enjoyed it and either played it up or played into it.

    My overall favorite? Tough choice but I would have to say that I enjoyed Zarina’s set just a bit better than the other two sets I ranked as a five. But I hope we’ll be seeing all the ladies back at RE over time.

    Cheers and all the best,

    Jeff

    in reply to: Spring Newsletter #15786

    gotu72
    Member

    Greetings from New Jersey and Hi Everyone,

    KateTT wrote:
    ” … I am sure it’s just a matter of time before ‘virtual rigging’ is invented anyway… “

    HHHHMMMMM!!!!! “virtual rigging” Now that would surely be an interesting concept with wide ranging possibilities…… For example robotic ropes that respond to commands sent via email or texts via a mobile/cell phone. Now where did I put that box of servo motors…..

    Cheers,

    Jeff

    in reply to: Spring Newsletter #15781

    gotu72
    Member

    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Hi Kate,

    250 miles from the RE studio! Hope that doesn’t translate into a large scale reduction of your rigging and camera work for RE in the future. That would be disappointing……..

    Cheers to all,

    Jeff

    in reply to: Spring Newsletter #15775

    gotu72
    Member

    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Hi Everyone,

    I’ve received both of the email newsletters sent. I wanted to answer Hywel’s question on how they got throught to others. First my PC runs windows XP pro with service pack 3 in place and I use Outlook Express as my email client. I also run the McAfee anti virus and spam package. My internet connection is over the local phone compnay DSL line.

    The first copy of the email came through with all the pictures and all the links seemingly active. Initially I did not try taking any of the links but noticed that if I moved my curosr over a link the location of the link would show up in the lower left hand corner of the monitor. I have since go back and tried to follow a couple of the links and they work fine.

    The second copy of the email pretty resulted in what ChrisUK said he received in terms of the same plain text message with no pictures or links. The one difference I noted was that I did not received a windmail.dat file as an attachement on my system.

    Hope that is of some use.

    Cheers,

    Jeff

    in reply to: A Bondage Romance #15605

    gotu72
    Member

    Greetings from New Jersey,

    I just wanted to say how much I have enjoyed the installments of the video that have been posted so far. They have all been wonderful but the most recent one with all the outdoor scenes and particularly the low light work and the much more public nature of the scenes were just stunning. I hope we’ll see other similar efforts on down the line. A great job by all involved and especially Sammie B for taking the bondage public like that. Wonderful. I’ll be looking forward to seeing the future installments.

    I have to concur with 44rodolfoc in hoping we might see some more “hidden” bondage out in public from time to time. Obviously no one wants anyone to do something that would raise the interests of the authorities but you can do some wonderful things under a poncho, cape or long coat. A light jacket with front pockets offers several possibilities as the inner ends of the pockets can be opened up such that the hands pass through them and over the waist when the jacket is on. Then the wrists can be handcuffed in front and the jacket zipped up to cover the bondage. A waist chain can also be used in that scenario. Another alternative is black handcuffs over a long sleeve black blouse or dress as the handcuffs will pretty much disappear in low light. Just a couple of random thoughts….

    Cheers,

    Jeff

    in reply to: April 2010 previews #15830

    gotu72
    Member

    Greetings from New Jersey,

    I hope everyone is doing well.

    Looks like April will be another strong month from everyone at RE. The previews seem like we have a lot to look forward to. Thanks to everyone in front of and behind the camera for all that you do. It’s appreciated.

    Cheers,

    Jeff

    in reply to: All Bondage X Factor 2010 Portfolios are now up! #15801

    gotu72
    Member

    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Hi everyone, I hope everyone is doing well. Hi Hywel. I’m sure when I take a closer look at the sets for 2010 I’ll see more of lighter side shots that you mentioned as I know that’s what you routinely try to show. On a real fast first run through it just seemed like that was missing a little from this year’s sets as a whole but I have not had the time to look at the photos in great detail.

    While I stated I’m not a fan of piercings, on the other hand I don’t think photoshopping them out them out of a photo is fair to the model because they are a part of who she is unless she was part of the decision. I would agree with you that the lady should be asked up front if you were thinking of doing that. Similar to the piercings I’m also not a big fan of a lot of tattoos but again they are a part of the lady so it would not be fair to her to photoshop all of them out either.

    Obviously there is no way that any site like RE is going to be able to please everyone with every set or video produced. There have been ones in the past that are big favorites of mine but have been rated very low by those who have voted on them as well as ones that I really just did not like at all that were rated very high. It’s going to happen, no big deal. Everyone’s tastes are different and that’s what makes a site like RE so good in that the team understands there are different tastes and tries to do justice to a lot of them by offering a pretty wide cross section of styles of bondage, restraints, clothing, story lines, persona of the model during the set/video and of course a wide variety of models. There’s something pretty much for everyone’s tastes and generally a lot for most peoples tastes so you overlook the odd set/video that doesn’t push your personal buttons as the next one probably will. And while I might not really like the piercings or ink you still have to admire the lady for putting herself out there for the world to see.

    Cheers to all,

    Jeff

    in reply to: All Bondage X Factor 2010 Portfolios are now up! #15798

    gotu72
    Member

    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Hope everyone is doing well. Now that all the Bondage X sets are up I’ll take some time shortly to go through the sets again and try to rank them. A tough task as always, but all in fun of course. Yeah I’m one of those that wanted to wait to rank the sets till they were all up but that’s just me.

    I have to echo Lurker’s comments in that I am also not a big fan of piercings, particularly facial ones. I’ll try not to let it impact my voting, and I do understand the individually aspect of doing it, but I do think it detracts from the beauty of the lady.

    I also took a look back through the Bondage X sets from 2007 and 2008 and one think kind of struck me that seems to be a bit different this time around. I most enjoy a bondage session when the lady is a willing partner in the game. To be sure this means that at times she’ll play the role of the scared damsel recoiling in “terror” or the angry tigress ready to rip me apart should she escape. That’s all part of the game. But equally she’ll flash a smile and/or give a look of “Okay I’m helpless, now let’s see how high we can take things.” To me it seemed like a few more of the sets in 2007 and 2008 had at least a photo or two per set where the lady was smiling or had a kind of “Bring it on” look. I don’t seem to get that vibe from all that many of the sets this time around. Pity, but again that is just my personal spin on things. Perhaps I’ll see more of that when I go through the sets again. In any event, all of the lady’s are lovely and I thank them for their willingness to come in front of the RE cameras for the members.

    Cheers and all the best,

    Jeff

    in reply to: Main RE site down, 7th March 2010 #15824

    gotu72
    Member

    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Hi Hywel,

    I’ve just tried getting on the site in both IE and Firefox. It’s currently just past 8:30 in the evening on the US east coast. I can get on and move around the site on both but I am seeing a quirk with the log on in that once I enter my username and password it is taking about 15 to 20 seconds to switch from the site entrance page to the member’s home page. Normally this only takes a second or three. On Firefox you see a progress box in the lower right corner slowly being filled in. Once it’s fills completely it switches to the member’s home page. With IE it first gives a waiting for the page message in the lower left corner, then quickly says “done”. Nothing happens for about another 15 seconds or so and then it kicks to the member’s home page. I first saw this about two days ago. The other odd thing was that I could not seem to log on to the forum from Firefox just now. I would enter my forum username and password and it would accept it. I’d go back to the index page, select a topic and then If I clicked on “enter a new reply” it would go back and ask me for my forum username and password again. This repeated for about three cycles. I can’t say if this is new or if it is an old issue because it’s the first time I have tried to go to the forum while using Firefox as I usually us IE. I didn’t have the same issue logging on to the forum in IE tonight.

    Figured I’d pass it along.

    Cheers and all the best,

    Jeff

    in reply to: March 2010 previews #15843

    gotu72
    Member

    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Looks like March will bring everyone another nice assortment of sets from the talented RE team. For me, at least, it’s always nice to see the variety that RE brings out each month. New sets as well as old favorites; nice mix of metal and non-metal restraints; indoor and outdoor sets; clothed, semi clothed and nude sets; gagged and non-gagged and so forth.

    Just a couple of quick photos that caught my eye…. The one with Ariel in five point restraint and scold’s bridle under the circular stairs (though I’m not that much of a fan of nipple clamps); being a cage fan it’s nice to see the globe one back in action; the harem suspension looks very good; the black and white set of Ariel looks to be a strong one; I also liked the one right after it with Leah H in the catsuit (though pink’s not my favorite color); the night time set with Sophia should be a real good one; as well as the slutification of Ariel. A nice job by everyone both in front of and behind the camera. Thanks in advance for the efforts.

    Cheers,

    Jeff

    in reply to: First post: an Idea (*dodges fire*) #15731

    gotu72
    Member

    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Hi Sheep.

    It can be done but is very very difficult if the top has sleeves and/or the cuffs are reasonable tight. About the only types that work well in this scenario is either a tube type top or a halter style one that ties behind the neck.

    Cheers,

    Jeff

    in reply to: Blogs #15833

    gotu72
    Member

    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Nice blog Hywel. Some of the photo tech stuff is way over my head given my limited photographic skills but that’s fine. Enjoyed a number of the landscape photos. Very nice. And, of course, the fetish ones weren’t bad either.

    Kate, like your photo as well. Hopefully you and the other RE photographers will share some of your non-fetish work as time permits as well.

    Cheers,

    Jeff

    in reply to: Bondage Photography Tutorial 13th February 2010 #15637

    gotu72
    Member

    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Hope everyone is doing well. I like both Sheep’s and Hasler’s ideas. I’d also enjoy seeing Ariel do a list of RE restraints and costumes showing them in use and giving us her comments about them. Should prove very interesting.

    Cheers,

    Jeff

    in reply to: Reminder: Red’s Realm chat tomorrow #15882

    gotu72
    Member

    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Hi Ariel and Hywel. I hope the tutorial went great today. I’ll be looking forward to seeing some of the results in the near future. Thank you very much for putting up the transcript of the chat from Friday. So sorry I could not convince my PC to link up to the chat session. Seemed like a lot of fun from what I read. So sorry I missed Temptress Kate and Pling as well and it was an unexpected pleasure to see that CD dropped by. Hopefully he’ll be able to return to the RE forum a little more often or participate in the next RE chat.
    I’ll definately make the next RE chat and continue on the forum. Till then….

    Best to Everyone and Cheers,

    Jeff

    in reply to: Gags and more gags #15850

    gotu72
    Member

    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Hello Everyone, I hope you all are well,

    Steve, I thought I would throw in my opinions on the gag question you asked. For me a lot of what I like or don’t like to see relates to the rest of the bondage scenario. The basic single strap gags, be they ball, ring, plug or whatever work better for me when the clothing, restraints, scenario and surroundings are more in the general home, office or outdoor environment. If you and your lady are doing a little impromptu bondage fun and she is simply in a top and jeans, dress or her lingerie then, to me, a single strap gag generally seems to look better most of the time. However I don’t mind using or seeing a full harness gag from time to time in that type of scenario but it looks a little out of place if it were used the majority of the time. Now when the situation shifts to a medieval scene then a metal harness gag or scold’s bridle certainly fits and, to me, looks better than a single strap gag. Likewise if the scenario is a fetish based one where the lady is dressed in leather, latex or spandex and bound in a lot of leather, metal restraints or very intricate rope bondage, particularly if it is a dungeon setting, then the full harness gags (again ball, ring or whatever style) become much more attractive because they are in keeping with the rest of the setting. I particularly like the locking harness gags in that situation, especially seeing the lady’s expressions as the locks are clicked shut, but obviously for safety reasons, you have to exercise care with a locked gag and make sure you can remove it in just a matter of seconds.

    Now one big turnoff for me is seeing a gag that is clearly the wrong size for the lady in question. If the ball is so small relative to the lady’s face that it looks like she could swallow it then it detracts from the beauty of the fantasy. Worse is the case of a gag that is far too big for the lady and she is clearly fighting to keep it in her mouth just for photo shoot. Yuk.

    Just my thoughts for what they are worth.

    Cheers Everyone,

    Jeff

    in reply to: First post: an Idea (*dodges fire*) #15728

    gotu72
    Member

    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Hello and I hope everyone is doing well.

    I think this topic is a great path for RE to follow. I’ve seen some videos and photo sets on some other sites about “everyday” life with the ladies in question being in some form of bondage (making pizza in handcuffs and leg irons while tethered by their collars, showering while chained, cleaning house chained and such) as well as some sites that have their models out in public in light bondage (generally collars and/or handcuffs). I really enjoy them and I would love to see RE’s take on this. Doesn’t matter to me if the ladies are clothed or not.

    Kate, I love the idea of a bondage picnic turning into a food fight. You definitely need to follow through on that one. There have also been discussions on the forum as well as attempts at remote location shoot to do a bondage dinner party. I hope the RE team will be able to put together at some point in the near future as I know if will be a classic.

    Northerner’s ideas of Ariel’s cooking video and of the chain gang sight seeing trip both sound like a lot of fun. Don’t forget the old forum idea of a World Bondage Games with the models competing in several events while in bondage.

    Anyway, I’ll certainly be interested in seeing RE’s spin on a couple of topics. A lot to play around with there.

    All the Best and Cheers,

    Jeff

    in reply to: Reminder: Red’s Realm chat tomorrow #15877

    gotu72
    Member

    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Hello and I hope everyone is doing well.

    Sorry Ariel, Kate, Hywel and all the other RE fans that made it to the Red’s Realm chat. I tried to get on it a couple of times in both IE and Firefox but kept getting an error message about the site requiring Java Support. To be honest I though I had it on my PC and, to no great surprise, entering “Java Support” into the on-line help didn’t produce any helpful results and neither did playing with settings in either IE or Firefox. There was a secondary link to an IRC portal but I don’t have IRC support on my PC, at least as far as I know. In any event taking that link didn’t work either. Pity.

    So sorry I was not able to join you. Wanted to but seemed to have hit a brick wall in getting onto the chat. Hope it was a good time and will look forward to a future RE chat.

    All the Best and Cheers,

    Jeff

    in reply to: No more padlocks, please! #15718

    gotu72
    Member

    Greetings from New Jersey,

    Hi Everyone. I hope you are all doing well.

    While I think I can understand your feelings 44rodolfoc and Lurker, I would not like to see the carabineers or combination locks used in the RE photo sets or videos. RE has used carabineers previously to “lock” the rectangular cage and, at least for me, it completely spoils the illusion of the bondage fantasy because the lady is not truly “In Bondage” since she could easily escape. This also applies to sets where locking metal or leather cuffs are attached together. If she can escape in a matter of seconds simply by twisting the screw cap of the carabineer then what is the point of the bondage in the first place? Yes it’s only a fantasy to be sure when it comes to a site like RE but what spoils the effect for me is something that can be so easily escaped from. A padlock can not be escaped from unless the person in bondage has access to the key or some tools. Bicycle style combination locks that have three or four rotating dials each numbered 0 – 9 are almost as bad. It doesn’t take much time to cycle though all the possible combinations. I not a fan of the dial style combination locks on safety grounds. In an emergency they can take far too long to get unlocked.

    Dear Temptress Kate, it is with great hesitation I bring up that I don’t think the light up combination locks you referenced would encourage a slave girl to keep still in a stress position. If I’m reading the descriptions of the locks on some other web pages correctly the locks only light up when the dial is rotated, not when the lock as a whole moves. Nice fantasy however.

    Now in looking at the “Oh Those Shiny SM Cuffs” photo set with Sammie B I can see the point about the lock perhaps being too big or clunky, particularly in something like photo “re8IMG_9941.”

    Yes the lock is perhaps bigger than it needs to be to secure Sammie’s cuffs. To me it’s fine but I get the point. Perhaps a lock more the size of the ones used on the cuffs themselves might make the look a bit less “clunky” and more elegant.

    A classic case of different strokes for different folks.

    Be well all.

    Cheers,

    Jeff

    in reply to: Bondage X Factor 2010- so far #15701

    gotu72
    Member

    Greetings from New Jersey,

    I hope everyone is doing well. I have to agree with “Lurker” on this score. I find I am reluctant to rate any of the 2010 Bondage X sets already posted. Much as I might find one or more of those sets to be a four or a five on it’s own, it might not rate that kind of score when compared to the other Bondage X sets. I’d rather see all the sets posted at the same time since we are being asked to compare the sets one to the others. Sorry.

    I’ll be sure to vote for all the sets but I would rather hold off till I can see all the sets side by side.

    Cheers,

    Jeff

    in reply to: Bondage Photography Tutorial 13th February 2010 #15623

    gotu72
    Member

    Greetings from New Jersey,

    I hope everyone had a great holiday season and all your New Years are starting well. I’d love to join in the fun and the learning experience of one of the tutorials but the financials just don’t allow for it at the present time. I hope it goes well and I look forward to seeing some of the results on the site in the not too distant future.

    I’m not sure if my schedule will permit it yet but I will try to answer Hywel and Ariel’s request and participate in the chat on Red’s Realm.

    My best to everyone and I know that the RE team will continue to delight us with their efforts in 2010.

    Cheers,

    Jeff

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